Sorry @Former-Member 
I know it will happen again , because it always does
I will work out the diary for the week with our jobs with him -- that is ok , than I start organising appointments and other things in between
I don`t know why but it seems like he wants to be in control , and changes his mind , I have shifted jobs around , cancelled appointments all the time
" 1 -- the other day we went to help clean my MIL`s walls and ceilings , and I said -- we will be there for the whole day ok , well after 4 hours of cleaning he packed the ute and said he was going home -- his mum was "what " she could not believe it
NUmber 2 -- was yesterday and we were doing my mum`s gardening , he told us we had been working for 2 and a half hours and he was going home but we were only there for 1 hour and a half
these are 2 explamps but there are many many more -- and when mum rang last night and said -- "does he do that all the time
and I thought how many other people see this as well
sometimes I just feel like i am tagging along -- argggg sometimes I think what about me
I think this is why it is soooo hard for me to do self care -- time for me because it is always changed for me @CherryBomb, @NikNik
sorry for venting , I am not very good putting thouhgts into words
this is why I love coming here , because it is my time for me and to chat to all my wonderful friends
Hello @soul, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member
