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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thank you @Maggie

yes my mind is telling me there is things to be done

but my body is saying rest xx

hope you are ok today xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yikes @Shaz51 car brakes & mower ...

Always plenty to do with Mum & Mr Shaz

Kidney stable = good news

Blood sugar up at night = 😵😵😵

Things steady here thanks.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi Shazzle Dazzle

How has your week been @Shaz51

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

ohhh what a week !!!! @Former-Member

I hope your`s was ok my friend

so much happening

and have been organizing mr shaz`s senior card where I can

the car`s brakes are fixed

lots of interaction with the transplantation team lately

mum`s wounds are getting there slowly healing

we have had sunny days and cool nights , wow

Mr shaz has been on a high with the sunshine wanting to get soo many jobs done before the rain comes back

worked this morning then went to the city , home again now , tired but ok

I am finding that when mr shaz is on a high , he does not listen , he decides his way is the only way and then when that is not working he will try my suggestion

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yikes @Shaz51 sending knowing thoughts your way. Hoping that the ups and downs are not steep.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hoping that the ups and downs are not steep., -- depends on my reactions @Former-Member

could be bad but mr shaz gets to a point and then he gives up and then I have to fix it up or take over

sometimes it is hard and tiring to have to do it all the time

but keep on keeping on here xx

and now having to fix things for mum now too

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Checking in @Shaz51

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

hello @Former-Member , hope you are ok , sending you tender hugs with everything that is going on

how are you and how is mr darcy today xxxx

I am in lots of aches and pains at the moment with the uria acid buildup in the body because of the kidney , not much i can do about it
but next checkup is in 4 weeks
mr shaz had his scan and xrays today for being a kidney donor
got lots of appts for mr shaz, mum and I coming up

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Lots happening for you @Shaz51. Have you and Mr Shaz been able to get some counseling support in relation to the kidney donation.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

have to do all the tests and go on the transplant list first and then more ongoing support for both of us xx @Former-Member

got a phone call from the Kidney dietician and the transplantation nurse today too

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