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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Shaz51 Sorry you never heard back from your GP, hopefully tomorrow.

Ahhh yes, I remember you saying that they had trouble getting blood out of you for your blood tests on Monday.

Thats very disappointing that the blood they took was unable to be used, and just a little bit incompetent of them. 😵

I expect your poor arm will be a little black and blue by now. I bruise very easily ... do you?

Yes Shaz ... I too have had a pretty relaxed afternoon, and day. No appointments today, for either Mr Sherry or me. Got one tomorrow for hubby though, which we have to travel to another town for. Its about an hour's drive. Its a Sydney neurologist who comes to the town for 2 days once every second month. This particular specialist, is treating and monitoring Mr Sherry's Parkinsons Disease. He sees a different neurologist, from another city, for his encephalitis-related issues. It gets pretty complicated at times. Too many specialists.

Sherry 🌺

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@Shaz51 @Former-Member I think that it is why it is so important to:

a) have a good GP to navigate things

b) ask for medication reviews (Medicare allow a certain number)

c) get specialists to cc correspondence to each other as well as to GP

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Very true @Former-Member

The neuro Mr Sherry saw a bit over a week ago, said he would write to tomorrows neuro. But when I rang today and asked if they had received the report .. they said no. Hoping it arrives tomorrow in time for apt.

Mr Sherrys Oncologist is very good at keeping all other specialists in the loop. Which is helpful.

Med reviews ... yes they have done them in the past. Most of what hubby is on now are essential, and some absolutely vital.

How did Mr Darcys chemo go today, or was it yesterday?

Sherry 😀

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Was today @Former-Member only.mild side effects so far. I need to follow up with oncologist, last time I asked GP.had not heard from them.

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Thinking of you all and sending warm wishes @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Former-Member xx

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Thanks @eth 🌺

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Hi @Shaz51

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How has this week been @Shaz51 ?

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moning @Former-Member

ammmm one day at a time here my friend , how are you going

sending you hugs

our car needs new brakes

our rideon mower had a trip to the repair shop

taking mum up for redressing twice a week

mr shaz wants to finish // keep going

have been do a routine but not sure it is working

my blood tests shows my kidney is stable , next checkup is in september

diabetes have been going up at night -- ???

hello @eth , @Maggie , @Sophie1 , @outlander , @Bunniekins

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That’s a lot @Shaz51

Its good your blood tests show your kidney is stable. Tricky diabetes stuff though.

I hope you have some rest time today. 💙💙

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