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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hmmmm Huuummmph! @Shaz51

Earth Scientist in me says Mr S plans are bad. We do not need more lawns even if he thinks they are easy to mow. Not good.. take too much WATER.

Tax Compliance Officer says ... yeah I know about tax ddddeduction/dodges. He is better off to use a spade and plant more trees.

I grump about not seeing enough older cars around ... too many unecessary upgrades.

Thats my 2 bob worth

Cheers Bella I love your garden.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thank you for your 2 bob worth @Appleblossom , I totally agree with you my friend

I want to slow down, really xxxx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

he wants to knocked down my grandmas/ mum`s house

and sell dad`s house @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Former-Member

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Nah... Dont let him @Shaz51 Unless you really want to ... He gunna build apartments?

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

they are both under my name @Appleblossom

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

GREAT. Get him to think more creative. @Shaz51

Was talking of movie The Straight Story ... about a ride on mower .. might be fun to watch ... give him some scenery and personalities to think about

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

I would be respectfully asking Mr Shaz to butt out of your business @Shaz51 . If you like your Mums house as it is, then keep it as it is. You may wish to make changes later, at which time let Mr Shaz know that you would appreciate his input and or opinions. But it is your home, your choice. Same with your Dads place.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hey guys, anonymous here one of the weekend moderators. I’m not sure if I’m picking up some tension here or you are all super passionate about the real estate in question. Regardless, misinterpretation can easily occur over an online space so it is always advisable to double check your posts to make sure misinterpretation doesn't happen. If things are becoming heated, and support is needed, please do not hesitate to email us or check out our resources of conflict and self care https://saneforums.org/t5/About-the-forum-including/Forum-Guides/m-p/105963#M1039

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

no it is all good @anonymous , thank you my friend

all ok here xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

I'm sorry @Shaz51 @anonymous if my response was deemed to be out of line. 😔 I can delete it if you want.

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