Thanks @Former-Member appreciate it,
I was supposed to be commencing councilling with a community centre last week but postponed it as I cant take bub with me (centre policy).
It Would have worked well being able to go at the same time as my darling was doing her group thing at the hospital due to the travel involved (out of town) but that would be too easy. I wouldn't think of taking him if I thought he was going to be a problem but rules are rules.
Thought of asking my mum if she wanted to come with us and look after bub while I had my appointment but that is an added stress in its self as I cant do that without a sibling taking over and having to know all of the details. (parasite lives at home and bludges off mum). Probably making things harder for myself but sne absolutely will not be left with bub. Mum wont respect our wishes in this regard. Gave me a spray while darling was in hospital last about not 'sharing' my children with the sibling. (Yes she actually used tbe word share).
Have another appointment scheduled for next week and still debating what to do. Last week older boys were on school hols so further complicated things, they are back school now so a bit easier but still dont have the energy to argue about why cant the parasite help.
