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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @Maggie , @Smc

I ammmm feeling soo tired at the moment xoxo

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51 I hope your Dr's visit turns out okay.

I understand that you wouldn't want to go to the Dr again.

I haven't found a new GP, since mine left in March.

I still have stitches (from my March major surgery) sticking out through tummy.

Locum Dr didn't examine, when I saw him months ago - he just left it like that.

Adge

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Adge, that sounds like outright neglect. 😞 Any way you can get that seen to?

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Any way you can get that seen to? i agree @Adge xxx

my mum`s strichers were taken out after16 days @Smc which the skin was growing over them xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Smc @Shaz51 Yes it was neglectful - I saw the Locum Dr specifically for that purpose.

He said he couldn't see the stitches sticking out (through skin), so he said it must be 2 pimples (& left it at that).

The internal stitches are hard, like thick fishing line (sticking straight out).

I don't see how anyone (especially a Dr) could fail to recognise them for what they are.

As far as I know all the internal stitches were supposed to be dissolvable - yet they never dissolved.

There were supposedly no removable (non-dissolving) stitches - because you would have to open my tummy up, to get them out.

Yes, I will probably have to chase it up with someone (even though I still don't have a new GP).

I was hoping that they would do what they were supposed to do (dissolve) - yet over 7 months, they have not.

Adge

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Adge

I would ring your surgeon's office and check what to do. They can tell you if you need to go in for a visit or whether you can safely tweeze the loose end out. Mr Darcy had some loose ends of stitches coming out of one of his surgical wounds.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51 sorry you are feeling tired today - make sure you rest a bit more or a bit longer if you can in the next few days to recharge a bit - maybe an afternoon nap if you can sometime ??? Or even a power nap - last week I had a nap in the car while waiting for MsS to finish an appt - only made th me world of difference

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good night @Sophie1 , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Smc , @eth , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Faith-and-Hope , @Determined , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar

feeling soo yukky in the stomach anf my blood sugar is up a litle , dont know why

but very tired xox

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Sleep well @Shaz51... hope the blood sugar settles overnight.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51 hope you're feeling a bit better this morning and had some good rest overnight. xoxo

@Adge Sounds like it's time for you to see someone about those stitches. Good luck with getting a new dr who listens well and investigates thoroughly.

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