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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Checking in @Shaz51

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Hello @Former-Member , hope you and Mr darcy are OK

Busy days yesterday and today trying to catch up with mowing jobs

Tomorrow will be busy again as well as Mr shaz getting a sun cancer cut out in the afternoon

Rang mum tonight and she was so happy and excited and was thinking of me today xxxxy

My MIL is in lots of pain at the moment xxxx

Me , I am feeling soo had it at night , ache all night and soo hard in the mornings to get.up

@Maggie , @outlander , @Former-Member , @eth , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Smc @Appleblossom , @Faith-and-Hope

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Hello @Adge

Soo glad you are with me my friend xx

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Hi @Shaz51 I'm always interested.

Especially when there's things in common (or similar experiences), that I can relate to.

Always so little energy (I have), not just one day - every day.

I try to keep up with threads - but there are So many of them.

& so much is written (pages & pages), that I cannot keep up with it.

So I try to check in on (at least) the threads & people who I'm familiar with.

Adge

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Can imagine the lawns would be growing at a rate of knots at present @Shaz51.

Hope Mr Shaz procedure goes OK - how is his shoulder?

Are you finding it a little easier to manage your diabetes/ kidney diet?

Things here steady, had friends visit today which was nice.

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@Shaz51

SO much going on.

Everybody's needs are important. Dont forget YOU.

I visited a good friend today. It was lovely to see her. She is one of the few people I am comfortable with. It is sad seeing her in HIgh Aged Care, but she has med needs even though she is bright and cheerful.

I hope tomorrow brings some positives.

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Thinking of you lovely @Shaz51 ... hope you wake feeling rested, and that Mr Shaz's skin cancer procedure goes well tomorrow. This might give you a chance for a bit of a break from work as he recovers from his operation? Hope so. Did you end up applying to be carer for your Mum? Sending love and hugs to you my friend.

Sherry

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Thinking of you too @Shaz51 . Hope today has some rest time in it for you. 💕💕💕☕️☕️

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Good morning my friend @Shaz51 and also to @Maggie @Former-Member @Appleblossom @Former-Member @Adge and all supporting Shaz51 here.

Dear Shaz sorry to hear you are aching so much of the time. Hope your rising today has been a little easier and that your mum and mil have better days too - so your load is lighter today. Hope Mr Shaz's skin procedure goes well. Take care lovely xoxo

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Hello @eth , @Maggie , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Adge

Thank you for your messages @Owlunar , @outlander xxxx

Today Mr shaz had his results and the doctor decided to freeze the spots instead of cutting them out

With mum she I'd ups and downs with dementia

And me I have soo much going on , I really don't need something else but I am going back to the doctors

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