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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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leave it to him to do the paperwork for it---- ha ha sorry @Former-Member , he would not do that or anything else that involves paperwork

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I know @Shaz51.

I did the majority of the paperwork for Mr D and his DSP, but I would not have been prepared to do anything for newstart.

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I know it may sound a bit harsh @Shaz51 but I felt that if Mr Darcy wanted to get newstart and felt he had the capacity to do the required volunteering, then he would need to take the responsibility to make it happen.

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does not sound a harsh to me @Former-Member

sounds very reasonable

he would need to take the responsibility to make it happen.--- i totally agree

my mum has brought me up to stand on my own 2 feet and do things

I think I need to change my thinking with mr shaz

and try to get myself back because mr shaz goes this way , that way , I sometimes find that annoying

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Ohhh what a day @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @octavia , @outlander , @Maggie , @eth , @Former-Member , @Determined

Mr shaz got his pole chainsaw today , ohhh what a mess to put it together, had to drive 30 kms away and back again to say we made a mistake @smc

Soo back we go tomorrow to fix it up , aarrgggv

Soo we have music trapeppy very loud tonight @Smc , l@

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yeep. Hope tomorrow sees it sorted @Shaz51.

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Ohhh me too @Smc

Soo upsetting , and we have some mighty loud music here xxxx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

What's playing @Shaz51?

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yikes @Shaz51 can see the twin running into the same problems of putting power equipment together 😨 he gets so disheartened too.

Loud music = 😵

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@Shaz51 take in your stride girl. you got this. worry about tomorrow's goal tomorrow. enjoy your tunes 🙂

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