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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Shaz51 I'm a mess, my step son had a wig out. aside from putting his hands on me, but all kinds of emotional abuse. I walked out and left my house. i refuse to be in it alone when my step son is here

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

that is not a good enviroment to be in @octavia

glad you have moved outside , is there somewhere you can go for a cuppa or stay until you can go back

where is your step son father

I was emotionally and mentally abused by my dad when i was young then mum and i left as i was soo skiny and sick

you know what i said about mr shaz before , well he is nowworried about all his other spots on him

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@Shaz51 I know, it's toxic. i can't just shut the door though. he's my family. he's my son. the fear I have will never outlast the love i have for him

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

How old is your step son again , @octavia sorry xx

I have 4 step children who are all adults now , we have had our ups and downs but i love them and I know they love me in their own ways xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

he is 23. acts like a kid. throws a rant and rave session, when it comes too it my bags are already lacked a

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

How are you going @Shaz51

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

overwhelmed my @Former-Member

I wrote about mumm in the " not sure what to do thread ""

mr shaz is worried about hings and family members

and about work

but he is enjoying the slack time we are having from not mowing

he is wondering if we should go on newstart -- ammmmm

how are you and mr @Former-Member today

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Mr Shaz might not be happy to do the volunteer work that is required for newstart payment @Shaz51.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

very true @Former-Member , mr shaz said he will be ok , --- but i don`t think he will in our small town

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Perhaps if he wants to apply, leave it to him to do the paperwork for it @Shaz51.

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