Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Sending love @Shaz51

thank you @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @TAB , @Owlunar

I have suggested a photography session for tomorrow , sunday @Former-Member , have to see if mr shaz wants to in the morning

I am sooo had it that I don`t even want to go tonight , I know mr shaz does not want to go

Often a catch 22 @Shaz51

Sometimes one feels better for having gone out, sometimes rest is needed.

Hi @Shaz51

You have had so much happening lately no wonder you feel as if you have totally had it - so would I.

You love your mother and she is such a battler and seems to have little peace medically at this time of her life which we all would like to be a time when we could catch up with ourselves - but one operation for skin cancer and another one coming up - it must be an anxious time for you and hard to focus on the photography session

And Mr Shaz doesn't want to go - it's up to you of course - whether you go or not - I know if I was do tired I would think carefully - you need to be there for your mother atm - and you must be stressed

I hear you

Dec

hi @Former-Member , @Owlunar

most times , i am ok and mr shaz is there to support me by coming

my mum was coming but has changed her mind -- which is ok

Last night we booked a 5 nights away for the day after christmas

ha ha to our photographer haven which will be sooo nice and yet still close by for my mum and my MIL

Mr shaz is really liking the idea of going for a photo drive tomorrow -- see what happens

I think it is me this time , my head hurts and after this big week

Being gentle with ourselves necessary too @Shaz51

hello @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @outlander , @Ali11 , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

it was a good night last night , the mission is called Samaritan`s purse "chistmas child shoebox appeal "

talked about how long i have been doing the shoeboxes for children aroung the world and australia who don`t get a present at all for christmas

the dinner we had "christmas in July " meal , soo much food and everyone had to bring an item to put in a shoebox

Sounds like you are glad you made the effort to go out @Shaz51 even though you weren't feeling like it.

@Shaz51 sounds like a very fulfilling organization to be involved with. I am sure I have seen them on tv in the past, that they have been going for some time.:)x