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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51 yes they love to rub it in 😄 that is exactly what my mum says lolz :D!

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

How are you going @Shaz51

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Ok @Former-Member

Lazy day today , had a sleep in this morning

mr shaz asked me if I was getting the flu this moning -- hope not

now I have a sore thoat and aching

been watching taped shows as it is raining all day here

talked to my cousin on the phone today 'she brought mum a parcle full of artists things

( mum has painted a lot when she was younger ), still got some of the paintings

I inherited my chidhood home when dad passed away ( and mum painting a mural in the bathroom and the kitchen ) I feel strange painting over them so I have left them there

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@Former-Member, how are you xx

Over the week mr shaz has gone through a few differnt emotions , such as spending , ( go , go , go attitude )

one hudred miles an hour

some unwanted and unneeded comments

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Do you like the murals @Shaz51 ?

Hurtful words = 😔

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I took photos of the murals because mum did the kitchen one in 1964 but it has mould in the wall and has come out in the painting @Former-Member

yes , but today he has been a lot more settled as we have caught up with all the overdue jobs

got a few job opperturnities during the week but i have said no to them all

mum is ok at the moment but dont want too much incase

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Mould a problem @Shaz51 , we need to paint the ceiling in our annex which has stains from where we had a roof leak that was fixed.

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Hello @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Determined , @Adge

we worked this morning and then checked up on my mum

had lunch after 1pm , and mr shaz said he is having the afternoon off , I said good as I was feeling blah ( I don`t know if that is a feeling but )

not sure what it is , low blood pressure ??? kidney??? , diabetes ???

ohh well afternoon off sounds like what we both needed

got a bit of a headache now xoxo

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51 hugs and hugs Shaz51 hope you start to feel less blah soon :)xxxx

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Hi @Shaz51 I hope your headache clears soon.

Yes feeling Blah is definitely a feeling...

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