Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

That's true. Sometimes you need to scale it back and look after yourself @Shaz51.

Hi @Shaz51

It would be really great if you could cut back on the physical work for your health Shaz - and right now both of have an injury - you have a pulled muscle - (mowing?) - and Mr Shaz has a frozen shoulder - how did that happen? That's hard to correct and painful.

But how would Mr Shaz cope if you cut back on the heavier work - will he be really anxious about that and all it means. I know he got an MI after a lot of stuff was taken out of his life without his control and this will be a tough decision for him - I understand

You have so much on your shoulders Shaz - something has to change to make things easier - esp with your Mum and her health

Dec

hello @Owlunar

Mr shaz tripped over the ramps and landed heavily on his right shoulder in the first week of february , he has had physio and doctors and medication , now waiting to see a specialist as it is still clanging and he has not got totally use of the arm yet and now it is may

yes we have decided not to accept anymore jobs , just to stay with the ones we have got

@Ali11, @Former-Member , @Determined , @outlander ,
@Former-Member

Are you all set for your holiday @Shaz51 ?

ha ha no not yet @Former-Member

but we cleaned 2 houses and finally mowed 4 lawns today , soo pleased we got some done , now they don`t have to be done until we get back home

our D1 is soo excited, and her partner was to have the week off but he has to start a new job when we get there , so D1 is even more happyier

trying to organize everything is tricky but getting there xxx

Ouch @Shaz51, did they put you through to a fracture clinic? The shoulder is so hard to figure out, hope that you get to see a specialist soon.

hope that you get to see a specialist soon.-- me too @Ali11 as the shoulder makes a lot of noises and he is not getting full use of his arm

hello @Former-Member , @Former-Member

one week to go before a week holiday

have not been excited at all unil today , it is finally kinda growing on me

been overthinking and worrying lots @Ali11

this is my D1 dog UPTO

Have you got the suitcases out as yet @Shaz51 ?

yes I have @Former-Member

after mr shaz does not really want to go now due to work , customers and mum in hospital

but i am feeling soo unsure about leaving mum , I know she wants me to go but after talking to the doctor today , if she does not improve I am worried that she might have to go to the big hospital , so have to see what happens in the next few day