Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51

It must be disappointing cancelling things Shaz - I have a idea that Mr Shaz enjoyed himself on Christmas Day because you were out until quite late but that must have exhausted him - exhausted you too

I have read most of your thread - it has to get to a stage when you have to roll with the punches I guess - poor old Mr Shaz - so many things to worry about - it must be really tiring for all of you

Sorry your cousin had to judge you - actually she was likely to have been judging herself and (sigh) - felt the need to justify herself in some way - you know the bitznpieces of your life better than she does - aw - you didn't need that

I have an inner picture of your cousins and other family members all running back to their homes like ants - because the rain gave them an excuse - of course having a crowd in the house because of the rain would be tensifying - not much fun - people get edgy and you say you run for the hills - I think I would be joining you in them thar hill with too much family at once

Happy New Year Shaz - Mr Shaz and Poor Little Kidney - I hope it is as good as it can be for all of you - and your Mum - the brave soul

From your second Mum - Dec✨🎉🎆🎇🎊🎈

good afternoon and thank you @Owlunar, @Smc, @Former-Member, @Sophie1, @Bunniekins

welll last night I rang mum and no answer , kept on ringing and no answer , so we went down and all the lights were off , trying hard to get the key in the door in the dark

finally got in and she was in bed a sleep --- ahhhhhhhhh

woke her up and then made her a cuppa before going home , she told me she had a fall and was feelinf sore

this morning she rang , took her up to the hospital, keeping her in , just got home now

so we were not meant to go away i see

@Shaz51 I ring my mum every morning at 8am if she doesn't answer I begin to worry. If she doesn't ring back within 30 mins I go into panic mode :(.

At least her being in hospital means that you know she is having good care and can take a bit of a breather for a little while at least.

I sure was going into panic mode last night @Bunniekins

at home now trying to relax , my sugar level is a bit high at the moment , so will need to relax soon

@Shaz51 you are a good woman Shaz51 just take good care of yourself this afternoon :)xxxx

how are you my super @Bunniekins

@Shaz51 Hey Shaz51 I'm good, I can't complained. I have my ex coming up again on Monday to see son2 and daughter. He is trying to spend as much time as possible to give me a break before he goes away for a month to see son1 in Germany. He is a good man .... just glad I am not married to him hehe!

Hi @Shaz51

Is Mum in hospital because of her fall or is she blocked up again?

Oooh, glad you were there to check up on her @Shaz51. Hope she recovers quickly.

she blocked up again @Former-Member, but they have checked for any injuries from the fall