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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor10 Dec 2016, 11:56 am AEDT

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Unknown userMember27 Dec 2018, 11:50 pm AEDT

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Had internet issues tonight @Shaz51

Glad you are not disappointed about not going away.

Sorry you have been let down again by so called friend. 😔

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 Dec 2018, 10:58 am AEDT

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morning @Former-Member

I used to get disappointed about things but this year I have had to cancell things all the time with Mr shaz and Mum and myself too

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Unknown userMember28 Dec 2018, 11:24 am AEDT

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It seems to be part of a carer's lot @Shaz51 having to change plans, flexibility the key.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 Dec 2018, 11:39 am AEDT

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very true @Former-Member

how are you and mr @Former-Member today xx

hello @Sophie1, hopping you feel better

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Unknown userMember28 Dec 2018, 12:30 pm AEDT

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It is a bit warm today @Shaz51, have checked in for work but there is not much on, am paid for what I do not by the hour (so not doing the wrong thing by hopping on line). Mr Darcy ran a couple of errands in town and has now fired up the lawn mower.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 Dec 2018, 12:37 pm AEDT

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sounds like working from home is good @Former-Member

sooo wet and windy up here

was going to wash the sheets but mr shaz has made the bed

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SmcSenior Contributor28 Dec 2018, 12:40 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member, there's a training manual??

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Unknown userMember28 Dec 2018, 1:10 pm AEDT

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Read every word of it @Smc 😁

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Shaz51Senior Contributor28 Dec 2018, 4:37 pm AEDT

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there's a training manual??--- wow that is a big book @Former-Member, @Smc

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Unknown userMember28 Dec 2018, 5:56 pm AEDT

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Only just a little bit smaller than this book for men @Shaz51 😀

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