Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @Former-Member, @Adge, @soul, @outlander,

Mum is in hospital , just transferred to bigger hospital 60 km away

Sorry to hear that @Shaz51

Thanks @Adge, @Determined

Driving up to see her now

hello

@Darcy, @Sophia1, @Smc, @outlander, @Dec, @Sherry, @Adge, @Faith-and-Hope, @Determined, @lapses, @PeppiPatty, @Appleblossom@soul@,@Bella

home again now , sooo tired

wonder why my mum is over this

my mr shaz drove 60kms up and 60km back

saw the doctor today , he said my tireness is from my ferriten iron being far oo high

see the blood specialist in november

awwwwwww sorry everyone

mr shaz went and did a job while I was in the hospital with mum , he brock the customer`s pot and broke branches off another tree

arrrggg the specialist told mum -- no surgery but this is going to be ongoing and my family think this is unfair

Hi @Shaz51 was just about to reply when your message came through. Concerning times re: Mum. Do you understand the reasoning behind the no surgery decision?

Yikes re Mr Shaz breaking things ... the twin left to hod own devices might do something similar.

Thinking especially of you.

Darcy

ha ha yes @Former-Member, I was not there and mr shaz told me his adventure of doing it alone = arrrrrrrgggggggggg

Do you understand the reasoning behind the no surgery decision? -- yes , one is her age

and the other one is they can do surgery but in a few months time she will be in the same situation she is in now but with more scaring inside

How is Mum faring today @Shaz51

mum still in hospital but feeling better and had lots of tests , @Former-Member, needs more protein as her muscles are wasting away and she still having bowel obstructions

My huge amount of internal (& external) scarring - from my 3 bowel surgeries, is what has largely caused my hernia now.

So I would not wish that on your Mum either, @Shaz51

Sounds very difficult.

Adge