Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Here for you @Shaz51

@Shaz51- both of these people who you love very much are making decisisons very hard for you

I read most of the thread and people have suggested ideas I would not have thought of but it seems you have one independent mother and one very dependent husband and how do you chose?

I can't answer that but your health is not good either - I will be supportive either way - whichever way - but I am really glad those things are not something I have to consider

All the best Shaz - I know you would like to do all of it but I am sure these is no way

Sending hugs

Dec

@Shaz51

Thinking of you atm...

you have one independent mother and one very dependent husband-- I sure do @Owlunar xx It feels very hard at times as I am independent

hello @Determined, @Former-Member, @outlander, @Faith-and-Hope, @outlander, @Former-Member, @Adge, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @PeppiPatty, @Smc

I was not here yesterday as mr shaz was verrrrrrry low , something happened which he could not get his head around all day

I try to tell him it is ok but then he blames me like i don`t care

some of his amswers last night and this morning -- I tried to talk no notice

My mum is back home again today

also with mr shaz everything has to be done early as he will not go out again after a certain time unless it is urgent of course

sending everyone hugs and hoping your day has been ok xxxxx

Full on for you at the moment @Shaz51. Thinking of you, praying.

thank you @Smc , how has your day been and how was your weekend xxx

@Shaz51

Reckon it might be time for another hairdressing appt so a few of us significant others can get a hair colour and a chat - I am suspecting there are a little more than a few more grey hairs that need attention - are you in @Faith-and-Hope, @PeppiPatty?

@Shaz51, weekend was pretty great, today not bad either. I was the happiest I've been for a long time, and it hasn't worn off yet. Hoping it lasts a bit longer. Details elsewhere...

ohhh yessss @Former-Member, my hairdresser does not work on mondays so have to ring her tomorrow

In the meantime, we could pick a colour @Shaz51