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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Yummmm @Owlunar

Slack day today @Former-Member, @Smc, @Appleblossom, @Determined, @Former-Member, xx

Been watching taped shows all day

Feeling a bit guilty now from doing nothing

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@Shaz51, we were among the strange people who set a barbarically early alarm to see the red moon, so it's a bit "do nothing" here too. 🙂

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Still feels great to have a nothing day @Smc

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I did not even know about the red moon until tonight @Smc or I would have been out there with my camera.

@Shaz51 understand feeling down about a lazy day but it is necessary some times.

I had planned on going over to my mums to get some farm equipment out and cleaned up for sale but after a bumpy morning with darling slept the afternoon away.

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@Determined, We got some nice viewing, but it was in between cloud bands, so we didn't get any successful photos. Hope the afternoon rest did you good.

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Afternoon rest was good @Smc

I did not want to leave Darling home alone so rested with bub as he was being ratty and would not go down without company. Was an easy excuse for essentially hiding as darling does not respond well when she thinks I am avoiding her.

Planning on going over to mums on Monday as she will not be home tomorrow. This is a job I had planned for the end of the year but have someone interested in some equipment mum has to sell now.

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We have been having lovely clear nights here so would have been perfect for photos had I known

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I didn't find out about the red moon until today either @Determined

So I missed out too.

Several people at yoga class (this morning) were like you @Smc

They set their alarms for very early in the morning, just to see it (they said).

Adge

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Hello @Adge, @Determined, @Smc, @Owlunar, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @outlander, @Appleblossom, @PeppiPatty, @Mazarita, @Former-Member, @Former-Member

Mum is back in hospital

I am feeling soo I don't know , I was teary while they put tube down her nose and drips in her arm

Now the doctor wants me to see him during the week --- maybe I need anti depressants or am I having carers breakdown

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Lots of love from this direction @Shaz51. If the doctor is keen to keep an eye on you as well as your Mum and Mr., youve got a good 'un.

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