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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor10 Dec 2016, 11:56 am AEDT

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Shaz51Senior Contributor02 June 2018, 5:49 pm AEST

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here for you @Former-Member, sending you knowing hugs

as mr shaz was using the extended chainsaw and it broke in half this morning , he tried to fix it and put it back in -- ammmm whenhe lifted it up the part was just sitting there moving around and he kept on sawing way up high , the top part I thought was going to fall off while sawing and then the saw got stuck in the branch and mrshaz is trying to get it down -- arrrgggggggggggg

Heloo @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Determined, @Appleblossom

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Unknown userMember02 June 2018, 6:02 pm AEST

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The twin would probably do exactly the sane thing @Shaz51 ... sending knowing hugs back.

His day did not start well, poor fellow, I rolled to give him a wake up kiss in bed this morning, not realizing how close he was and accidentally head butted him with the back of my head.

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DeterminedSenior Contributor02 June 2018, 6:03 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear Mr darcy not doing well @Former-Member, that would be difficult.

Trust the gp is able to help out next week and you got all of your jobs done.

I had planned to mow today but didnt get that far. Has been a relaxing day here, we went shopping for a roast for dinner this morning and I went out with my mum this ave for some time out, darling went to visit her parents which was nice.

@Shaz51 hope mr shaz not too upset after the breakage.

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DeterminedSenior Contributor02 June 2018, 6:06 pm AEST

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Haha that sounds like something I would do also @Shaz51 except I am more inclined to saw a little lower down lol

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Unknown userMember02 June 2018, 6:17 pm AEST

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I think the reality is that our little farmlet is probably too much for Mr D following his psychosis and physical injuries from attempt @Determined @Shaz51. He feels a failure.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor02 June 2018, 6:20 pm AEST

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and then @Determined, @Former-Member

mr shaz parks the trailer on the slope of the hill , I tried putting the braches in the trailer and he is tring to cut the branches as i am putting them in and then he climbs in and jumps on he full load of rubbish -- arrgggg

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Shaz51Senior Contributor02 June 2018, 6:22 pm AEST