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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 hope tomorrow is a better day day for you

@Former-Member, trust all the test resjlts are ok for you and Mr Darcy traveling ok atm.

Off to bed for me also, has been a long unproductive day.

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Unknown userMember

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@Faith-and-Hope trust things remain settled today (although I m sure there may be duck feet frantically paddling beneath the surface).

@Shaz51 it is so very tiring when anxiety is high. I don't know about Mr Shazbo but Mr D cannot reason well when he is in that frame.

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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That’s an apt description @Former-Member ......

Hi everyone 👋☕️💕

But if a fly-by cos I have still got visiting dragons .......

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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I don't know about Mr Shazbo but Mr D cannot reason well when he is in that frame. --- yes same here @Former-Member

yes one of the things yesterday-- there were many more heart attacks yesterday

,Mr shaz was fixing something , I gave him a suggestion but I had to walk away as I knew he was not listening anymore , mr shaz gave 40 minutes later from the garge , I said "how did you go ", he said " he went and brought the part "" ---- ammm I told you to do that an hour ago ( thinking to myself )

Well today we slept until 9-30am , watched taped shows all day, raining here all day , still in our PJ`s and 4pm

Hello @Faith-and-Hope, @Determined, @xtine, @Adge,

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Hey @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member + anyone else around.

Quiet day here, slept in till about 10am then been trying to get some work done, no progress as usual.
We were going to try an go out today but everyone seems happy to be at home.

I may have to go and hide at the uni tomorrow to try and get some work done without any distractions.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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we seems happy to be at home. too @Determined, we get days like that

how are you and your darling today xx

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Darling has decided she would like to go out for dinner so having a family night out.
I suggested it earlier today but thought it wasn't happening. Nothing fancy just to one of the local pubs, they do a good meal and have a great kiddy area so everyone gets to enjoy.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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that will be nice @Determined

that sounds the same here my frind -- I suggested things earlier today and oh yes lets buy takeaways tonight -- ammm xx

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Unknown userMember

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Hope meal not cooked at home nice @Determined @Shaz51

Stir fry here which I cooked but not the usual recipe and a bit ordinary. Had a pomegranate for dessert which was lovely.

Lazy day here too, not much more than grocery shopping done.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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pasta meal with bacon here for dinner @Former-Member

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