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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Determined

How it gave me hope is that I too have traits that I do not like in myself and I hope that through personal growth others will notice in me that things were 'at that time' and no longer.

It also gave me insight to some of the emotions Mr Darcy might be experiencing as he is not well enough to be working.

Darcy

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Good Morning @Former-Member, @Determined

How are you this morning xx

We all have our ups and downs , wih Love , and I believe the enviroment we make , makes all the difference in our love ones lives

and a place where there is no pressure for our love ones to have to preform

I am callm, relax , not expecting anything today, and Mr Shaz can feel it , he is doing little things today

tomorrow is another day ,

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Gentle start to the day here too. 😀

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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that`s good

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Ha ha @Former-Member

guess what , we have a hole in our laundry floor and Mr Shaz is filling it up with concert, -- bitting my tounge about the mess , I will be cleaning the house later

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Oh dear @Shaz51

Hope the job goes smoothly for Mr Shaz, his twin would almost certainly run into trouble.

Just as well you have superior cleaning skills.

Darcy

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Unknown userMember

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Hey @Determined
Hope I have not upset or offended.
Darcy

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Hi @Former-Member

You definitely have not upset or offended, I really appreciate your response.
Sorry for the slow response, I have been out since early this morning and this is the first chance I have had to respond. (Response currently in construction).

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All good @Determined
It is the weekend, no pressure, spend time with your family.
Darcy

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hello @Former-Member, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope

All went ok this morning , had to step in when Hubby wanted to do it all over again , it was not prefect enough for him , but I have learnt to step in now instead of letting him go

How are you @Determined xx

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