I reckon I would be spewing choice words by that stage @Catcakes ..... as I am right now with D2 ..... 😡
Came home this afternoon feeling exhausted, so asked her to put all the shopping away that needed the fridge. She headed off to get changed into comfier clothes .... I asked where she was going .... she told me ..... I said no, not until you have put the fridge foods away. She stripped, but went ahead with unpacking them.
I lay down and dozed for an hour or so, but have stayed resting for another hour. She knocks on my door and asks if it’s okay if she puts the shopping away now .... standing there changed into comfy clothes .....
Fridge foods have now been left out for 2.5 hours .....
Different if she was lacking in understanding, but she is not. This is vindictive behaviour, and then she will apologise as if she didn’t understand .... trading on her disability ..... and you can be suckered into it until you realise she is smirking to herself at her “achievement” ..... she “won” by guile ..... completely ignorant to the consequences of the unrefrigerated foods.
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This is her response to our mr. situation ..... with everyone else wobbly, there has been a dramatic escalation of these behaviours in her. I am too emotionally drained to stay on top of it.
