FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Friends, families and carers

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

8295 replies

3,911 - 3,920 of 8,295

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thanks @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope

gallbladder scan for mr shaz on thursday

everything is upsetting him, ..........----------------, !!!!!!!!

trying too my friends , getting a headache

In response to: Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51

Its been a BIG WEEK. Lots of anxiety from all quarters.

Gently Bently

Bella Bird.

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Oh @Shaz51
Remember it is not you ...

In response to: Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hey @Shaz51 - hope Mr Shaz's mood lifts. Thinking of you.

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51

I'm sorry about Mr Shaz - what a mix up with his appointments - I am glad they dealt the the sun spots or cancers -

It is confusing - I guess people don't take their medication for all sorts of reasons - I just know I always take mine - maybe Mr Shaz gets confused because when I am confused I get really frustrated - like the stuff for My Aged Care which seems problematic. I don't get confused often but that confuses me - so I am with anyone in the confusion-disaster-or-whatever club

It's hard for you when Mr Shaz shuts down though - will he get hungry later and eat his dinner warmed up or does he go to bed with his blanky and stay there -

I understand the blanky bit - we all have to have blanky days if we are honest -

Up-and-down of his MI - that has to be tough for you and the Little Kidney - I hope you are okay

All the best Shaz

Dec

If this is weird it's because it's really late - my mornings have been tough lately and I need to attend to my chores at night so there is less to do in the morning -

In response to: Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Good morning and thank you @Owlunar, @soul, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @Faith-and-Hope, @Determined, @Former-Member

@Owlunar, I love your caring messages ,because the meds puts on weight , Mr shaz stops taking them because of the weight issue

also everything is building up in his head , overthinking ect -- he has not told me yet but knowing this is what is happening

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Quick check in @Faith-and-Hope

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Unsettled today @Former-Member.

Leaky, flat ..... mr. f&h was temperamental this morning, somleft the house for an apt with D3 and have stayed out.

Some LE forum friends are “missing”, which is not great ...... hoping it’s self-care reasons ......

Travel plans went into the air and landed totally different yesterday, shortly before we travel ..... affects all our Easter prep ..... this happens with some regularity, but it probably hiit me this ti e when I wasn’t braced for it ..... nothing I can’t get over tho.

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Faith-and-Hope ... sending gentle thoughts your way.

In response to: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Thanks @Former-Member .....
3,911 - 3,920 of 8,295