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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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@Former-Member, @Determined, @Determined, I feel like saying well I have said today , lets cut back on work then and only work in the mornings and have the afternoons off

and then Mum said have you (ME ) applied for being her carer yet

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@Shaz51 hiding away in a book can be enjoyable.

Perhaps one of the mods might know if there is a reason for apparent increased nocturnal anxiety @Determined, I have a few theories in mind, all of which have merit.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Its alright now @Former-Member , @Former-Member, @Determined thank you xx

I had my hair done , talked to my SIL , my SIl and BIL are coming over tomorrow afternoon

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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I just felt soooo ARRRGGGGGG @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Determined

hope you are all ok and sending you hugs , @Faith-and-Hope, @soul

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Hugs @Shaz51

I could do with a hug myself so mby a group hug may help us all.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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sending you a big hug @Determined and we are with you

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Waiting on pic @Shaz51 but thankyou

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Hi @Shaz51
Hope the Aaaarrggghhh continues to be on hold - looking a bit Shazzle Dazzle with your new hair do.

@Determined
I can see things are not so good for you Bro, praying for strength and wisdom for you.

@Faith-and-Hope
Hope the rapids have eased a bit with youngsters semi sorted. Is there movement on a new treating team.

@Gettingolder
Here you will find others who care for their significant others

Back on home turf now, have the home drive ahead of us - picking up the hounds on the way through.

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Former-Member. Thinking of you also.
Trust things are going ok for you and settling back in at home goes smoothly for you.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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morning @Determined, @Former-Member, hope you are ok oday

Hello @Faith-and-Hope, @soul, @Former-Member

wellllll busy day yesterday , BIL and SIL came over last night

BIL always says thing without thinking and if he stays too long he starts talking stupid, and he said something that has stuck in mr shaz`s ear , so he is still commenting on it

my aunty is in hospital , and my cousins have invited us for lunch , already mr shaz does not want to go

we did some gardening in our yard this morning , two loads of washing

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