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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Sorry mr D not so good @Former-Member
Thankfully only heavy rain for us at the moment.
We have had roof leaks over time so always a bit tense when heavy rain about. All good so far.

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Hoping things steadying a bit for you @Determined
How is Mr Shaz faring @Shaz51, read up on your thread @Faith-and-Hope - any word on test results?

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Nothing mentioned yet @Former-Member .... but he had two daytime sleeps today .... and no reducing his exercise program.

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Today has actually been ok so far @Former-Member, evenings are the worst though. I always dread how each evening is going to unfold.

Had a very positive meeting with S1's teachers today so that has been a nice boost for us both. Teachers were very positive about his progress and integration to his new class.

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Hello @Carlachris :, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @soul, @Former-Member, @Former-Member heart:

well today we were watching a show we taped "insight "--and one lady said she felt like she did not want to leave the hospital, my husband said he feels like he wishes he can go into hospital for a week at a time too , to get away from everything

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Are you picking up @Faith-and-Hope?
School report sounds positive @Determined, am hearing you re: difficult evenings
@Shaz51 Mr D definitely does not want a week in hospital, keeping him out is a priority.

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Hello @Former-Member, that`s when I said but you hates hospitals , mr shaz said I know

I would love to just hide away at home everyday would be great -- There you go -- the is it -- @Former-Member , what do you do ??

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Really hope things work out for you in that regard @Former-Member I don't understand why evenings are so unstable...

My darling really should have and could have spent a week in hospital @Shaz51 but absolutely refused.

My main concern at the moment is how things will unfold when I am back at uni and not on call for constant support. Going to be a bumpy transition I fear.

Getting some great support from a friend spending time with her 2 day a week, 1 just for social and 1 doing activities. My mum will also fill some gaps where necessary.

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Sounds like you are doing everything that you can @Shaz51....I guess I might only add, be gentle on yourself right now! If you need to rest and hide away a bit at the moment, maybe its OK to do that...

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