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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Former-Member, is it a full moon tonight? or is he depressed? Not easy.
When my hubby felt shakey so did i, and the kidz, even the dogs. It was horrible. Feel for you.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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sending you lots of hugs @Former-Member , That is the one difference between Mr @Former-Member and Mr shaz -- Mr shaz has only cried twice in all the years i have known him

Hugs for you @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Former-Member

Thank you @Former-Member, mr shaz has gone quiet after the news , he has washed up tonight

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Unknown userMember

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@Shaz51

his way of showing that he wants to look after you too xxxx

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Unknown userMember

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Mr D was not one to cry at all previously @Shaz51 this is a recent development.

Will Mr Shaz tell you how he is feeling?

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Unknown userMember

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@Former-Member

do you think that mr darcy is still struggling with his diagnosis?

or possibly trying very hard to release pent up emotion from the lead up as well as the operation and change to medications?

I hope that he settles soon .....that you can find some peaceful time too

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Will Mr Shaz tell you how he is feeling? --- He takes a Looonnng time @Former-Member he will be very quiet for a long , tooo long as I start to feel "what have I done "

so for tonight , no hugs yet but I know he loves me but it would be nice now without asking him

I must say he is better than years ago as mr shaz would go for a walk or a drive or go to bed @Former-Member. @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Determined xx

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I would like to be held too @Shaz51 ...

Mr D not able to do so at the moment, there has been another drought in the intimacy dept given his orthopaedic issues.

@Former-Member @Former-Member I truly don't know, think I'm hoping it's all pain meds and surgical.

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member thinking of you,

Trust last night was not too rough and Mr Darcy is more settled.

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51

Big day for you yesterday, thinking of you

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Unknown userMember

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@Shaz51 sounds like you will need to be lugging the S Dazzle medical compendium with you to each of your specialist appts so they can get the full picture.
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