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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51

You have enough to think about right now and I have you in my thoughts

But yes - I think your husband needs to see a psychiatrist and I agree - he needs a dx

I am hoping the night isn't too rough for you and you get some sleep

Dec

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Wise comments for you @Shaz51 from @Decadian.

I LOVE reading Dec.

PP

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh thank you my special friend @PeppiPatty , @Decadian, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope. @Shimmer, @Former-Member, @Former-Member

I feel I can`t help anyone at the moment with hubby and my mum

sooooo much expectations from my cousins, I am finding it hard to Focus

I am feeling sooooo arrrggggggg , I don`t know what to do xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Darling @Shaz51

Remember one step,

one thing at a time.

then make a cup of tea.

Nice and slow. This was my life for many years when my son had cancer for and so many expectations from my family......

We are very special friends: @Shaz51@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Decadian @Former-Member @Decadian @Former-Member @Former-Member

PPx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

ohhhh thank you @PeppiPatty xx

thank you @Faith-and-Hope @Darcy @Decadian @Darcy @Decadian @mohill @Carer101

mum is suppose to come back to our local hospital -- has not come back yet x

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yes @Shaz51

One step at a time - bitznpiecez - bitzpiecez - and how do we stop the expectations of other people from confusing and overwhelming us

And they know so bl^^dy much and they can be soooooooooo self-righteous

But we get it - we understand - you have enough on your plate - you can only do it one bite at a time.

In reality - that's all we can ever do about anything -

Thinking of you Shaz

Dec

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51
Thinking of you
Darcy

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thank you @Former-Member, @Decadian, @PeppiPatty, @Faith-and-Hope, @Shimmer, @NikNik

an update , mum is back at home , she is very annoyed as the doctor`s don`t know what she has !!!!!!

Hubby is finding it hard to cope when things happen , so he had a bad day yesterday with lawn mower trouble , wraps stings, and pains from kidney stones which he is taking pain tablets to ease it

he was ready to give up yesterday , only because i think cant cope with changes or things happening

hope Tomorrow will be better xx

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

❤️💕 @Shaz51 ...

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

dear @Shaz51

You are taking care of yourself in that you know that Mr @Shaz51 are his problems......

poor man......

Sending care to you and your Mum....

PP

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