Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

7 hours @Grasshopper3, that is good xx

How is your day going ??

thanks for thinking of me @Determined

Good morning @Former-Member

Hello @outlander, @Grasshopper3, @Owlunar, @Determined

good afternoon @outlander, @Former-Member, @Grasshopper3, @Owlunar, @Determined

hear an interesting subject on Depression and the different seasons , talking about people getting depression at different times of the year @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @CherryBomb, @NikNik,

well Mr Shaz gets depressed when it is raining , he can not stand it when it rains and rains

How is hubby going @Shaz51? Have you been out and about together, doing lawns etc?

It will be raining in WA tomorrow, and I was going to do some gardening.... lol

xx

Hi @Shaz51

I think I have mentioned before that I thought my ex-h might have been depressed but it was hard to see past the lazy and morose exterior to tell and I was just irritated with him a lot of the time so I don't know

But say on a Saturday - when I had been up since 6.00am and had been doing a lot of weekend stuff because I worked - I wouldn't have minded had he stayed out of my way for the whole day - but eventually he would get up and wander to the window and it might be raining - either all day or just started - and he nearly drove me crackers by saying mournfully

"It looks like it has set in for the whole day"

Ahhhhhhhhhhh - he had such hard luck - I wouldn't let him smoke in the house and he would stand in the car-port smoking and looking miserable

Enough said Shaz - but yeah - we all have the weather whatever the weather is - and we might be just as miserable but I remember that mournful tone and the misery of smoking in the carport

Yeah - enough said - I have been so much better off without that and I feel for you having that happening too - when you have your own health problems

Hugs - Dec

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Hi @Owlunar

Mr shaz was listening to the radio and he said that`s me when it rains too much , but as for me , i can do nothing or find plenty to do around the house

this morning i had a sleepin -- amm 8am when mr shaz woke me up , so i don`t know how much longer i would have slept

it is raining here non stop yesterday and today , so we went food shopping for us and my mum

mum has not had the phone for a week , which is hard as i ring her everyday to see if she is ok , well today there was a cent sale on and she thought her and i could go and i went shopping didn`t i -- as she could not ring me up

oh well mr shaz and i had lunch after shopping , we shop in the next town which is 30kms away and a lot cheaper , home now, food away , second load of washing on , dishes are done , time for a cuppa and the computer