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Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 I did it to myself it wasn't pretty I might be at my breaking point with everything because my partner hasn't seen me do what I done for a while they were concerned that I was going back to the hole and not finding good ways which I went for a walk today and to the park shops
Everytime I go somewhere I think someone will say something bad to me or even worse that's just me
I am just going crazy in my head nothing bad not thinking right I don't want to be selfish can take away everyone time here so I will go
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
You don't have to leave. You are here for support, and that's what the forums are for. I'm here, and so is Jynx. You're not alone in this @Sunnyside226
What can you do to help regulate yourself so you can be a little more relaxed? Do you meditate at all?
Can you play some music, and watch your favourite show? Can your partner give you a hug?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 I've had music on
I don't really sit down long enough for movies I always have to be moving or doing something
Tonight isn't good I already did something stupid not bad though
I am screaming into my pillow
I am not going to annoy them
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
That can be a good way to get things out by screaming @Sunnyside226
I'm sure they won't mind if you ask for some support or even a hug.
What's the harm in asking?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
If it was me feeling how you are now I would be all for going to my partner, I don't have one by the way I wish I did so I would be giving them a big hug if I was feeling not good @tyme
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
He's not here he's away with work he's back on the 24th of February
I don't feel good at all
Any plans for the weekend?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Oh, I'm so sorry. I thought he was with you @Sunnyside226?
I'm making focaccia right now.
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
It's ok I thought I told you it might of been someone else
Yum @Birdofparadise8
Isn't @RiverSeal here anymore? I haven't seen them around all week
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Maybe you did @Sunnyside226
You said you spoke to them, so I thought they were with you.
Yeah, I don't know. I haven't seen them. I know they are normally around on a Sunday.
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Oh I see @Birdofparadise8
Tomorrow I have a busy day I am going to buy Lego and clean the house do washing I have to go to the chemist to pick up the kids medicine I might not even do that I might just have a lazy day because it's going to be hot tomorrow
I am going to make pie tomorrow too
All I wanted to do was cry instead I did something bad I feel so stupid at myself anyways I will let you go because I am been annoying now
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