Support for Flowerlove22

@Sunnyside226 Aww I'm glad you got to have that big release! I know crying can be exhausting, overwhelming, and can feel painful sometimes, but it really is a great way for our bodies to release pent up emotions and tension. You've got so much going on, I hope you're able to be gentle with yourself.

Is the appointment one that is gonna be potentially helpful or supportive for you? Totally normal to have anxiety before appts, especially ones where we might have to open up and be vulnerable about what we're going through. You got this hun ✊💜

It's hard to feel so crappy, maybe thinking about kitties in prams can help?

Here, this can help you picture it hehe

😂😂😂😂 they don't look happy

I'm sitting outside debating to go in or not I already got one poke today I don't want more

I am having the biggest anxiety attack i can't walk in @Jynx I don't like this it's in a area I don't like @Jynx my heart is racing

Naww @Sunnyside226 they're happy kitties! Cat body language is quite different to ours. Their ears are up (pushed back means angry or scared), their fur is relaxed (they poof up when they're angry), and they are just looking up at their owner waiting for treats most likely!

Could you postpone to another day? Or at least let them know that your emotions are running high and you could use a bit of reassurance and comfort. Take some slow deep breaths - you remember the 4-7-8 count breath technique I mentioned a little bit ago? It will help to slow your heart rate. Big breath in, hold, sloooow breath out.

I walked in now sitting waiting

How's your another cat @Jynx

My autism is getting high it's hot I wanna cry so many noises

@Sunnyside226 Razz is good! She's growing up fast haha. They're both a bit cranky with me cos I just did their flea treatment. But lots of treats tends to help 😂

Do you have headphones or could go wait somewhere different? Maybe let the staff know if you need to step outside.

Keep taking those long, slow breaths hun, it will help - even if it doesn't feel like it. These things take time. You'll be home before you know it, too 🤞

Oh the human is in trouble with them flea treatment I thought you were going to say you bathed them 😂😂😂

I was going to say your game enough 😂 @Jynx

I'm sitting outside the now doctors take forever

I would be cranky too if I had to be flea lol both of your cats are very cute

Do you have a favourite? @Jynx

@Sunnyside226 omg bathing them would be horrible! I'd end up covered in scratches! Nah it's just a spot-treatment, just gotta make sure they don't lick it off of each other.

Ohhh soon I hope you get in soon! Then you'll be home before you know it 😉

I mean, I try NOT to have a favourite. Trixie is more cuddly, and her long fur is always soft. But Razz is sooo silly, and watching her flip out when she's got the zoomies is really something. And watching them cuddle up together makes my heart all warm 😻

Would you ever own cats?

I walked out after I got bad news so now I am cranky and struggling

Would I ever own a cat one day I might I know my partner does he's been asking for 3 months he is bad he has his fingers wrapped around my hand haha it wouldn't surprise me if he showed up with a kitten 🤣 @Jynx

I will go so I don't annoy you anymore hope to see more kitty pictures soon

You don't have to go anywhere @Sunnyside226 I quite enjoy chatting with you! But if you need a break that's also just fine 😊 I'm hopping off at 10pm anyway so maybe we just chat next time? Up to you!

Aww that's really cute! Maybe a kitten will find you! Both of mine are rescues, they were born right under my house! Their mama was a stray, but we got her scooped up and sent to be desexed so I don't end up with even more kittens running around! Two is plenty 😂

I hope that even though the appointment was crappy, you're able to do something nice for yourself this evening. Maybe some ice cream 😉🍦

Both cats are from the same mum?

You are really lovely to chat with too

I bet they do adore they're mumma now 😊

I'll go home cry in the shower and most likely watch tik tok @Jynx do you like tik tok? Are you around tomorrow?

Or is it @tyme tomorrow?

I'll lose it out myself soon if I don't hear back bye @Jynx 😄💜