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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
That's the thing he doesn't trust anyone else I prettymuch gave up my annual leave to have time to myself/ have a break from work but instead I babysit his kids for weeks and weeks without that much help your may ask why I did it that's because I will do anything for them but now it's every couple of days today he wanted a romantic day/ night without the kids and asked me I said no because I am on call sometimes I may have to go in what he doesn't understand is I have a life too I am tired of dropping everything and running to help it's already burnt me out I'm done helping I am sick of being the one to do everything babysitting is like $70/hour or something I am sure he can just do that but he doesn't want to spent money I told him why did you have kids then , one day I will not be around to pick up everything he's angry at me because I put my foot down i am not running a babysitter club
I am so so angry right now I just need a long holiday I am done helping
If I need something it's a different story
@RiverSeal sorry if I snapped at you it wasn't at you I didn't mean it
I am honestly just done
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
I feel so pathetic
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tymeModerator
Heya @Sunnyside226 ,
How are you travelling so far this week?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey hey @tyme I want this week to be over! I am so cranky and angry
How's you??? 🤗
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tymeModerator
It's hot and bothersome, but I'm in good spirits @Sunnyside226 .
Only a few more days and this week will be over 🙂
What's happening? Siblings?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
work is hard I've had enough already haha
My sibling are driving me nuts @tyme
Tonight will be sooooo long
I'm about to have a meltdown
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tymeModerator
Are you at work or with your siblings? @Sunnyside226
Can't' you just walk away to protect yourself?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
I'm at home but I start work at 10 tonight it's a activate overnight shift no sleep
I'm about to cry I just burnt my foot I accidentally dropped boiling water on my foot
@tyme I have have a question for you 😀
I seen my brother yesterday afternoon after work I took the kids out my god they did my head in
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
What's the point in trying anymore I'm never good enough for them
Don't bother just leave me alone
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PaperdaisySenior Contributor
Hey @Sunnyside226 How you doing? Here if you want to talk about what's happened...
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