Does anyone want to talk

I don’t know they probably can if they want to @PizzaMondo

They'd only come over if they had a reason to @ArraDreaming - and from what I have read on here, even from other members - you are a wonderful, supportive and caring father and parent! To ALL your kids. So now tell me, what would even urge them to wanna come over and take your children away from someone who feeds, clothes, takes them to and from school daily, plays with them, builds bikes with them?

Answer me that.

I dunno cause we are struggling with money and stuff @PizzaMondo

Okay I hear you @ArraDreaming - but from what you share with us on here, you're still making ends meet, yeah? Like my previous response, your kids are still being cared for by you and your wife and are shown love everyday, right?

And you are working right now, and next week will be moving into a new job! I'm wondering, have you made any time to celebrate this win?! Not by doing anything fancy or that costs $$$, but just simply acknowledging that more stability is just around the corner.. will this new job support/improve your family's financial status currently?

yes a lot
cause I’m only working casually right now @PizzaMondo when the guy needs me

but if they come over and see our messy our house is @PizzaMondo

They know my parents @PizzaMondo already got a profile on me doesn’t take much after that you know

What can they say to a messy house? You have kids! What do they expect? It isn't pristine clean like a family TV show in reality! Even I know this and don't have kids yet 😛 I would think if your home is in a state of an episode of Hoarders right now - then yeah, @ArraDreaming - get onto those chores - but toys laying around, some bits and bobs of food on the floor is not going to hurt anyone and if they asked your kids, even your 3 year old how home life is - you know what your kids would be saying! ❤️

So tell me, you looking forward to this new job then? And the $$$ improvements are going to come with it? Even I can taste the bliss for you right now @ArraDreaming !

Yeah will just get us back to what we were before I lost my old job @PizzaMondo well it’s only part time but hoping to keep this casual gig on other days

That's absolutely something to look forward to @ArraDreaming ! Hey, part-time work is one up from casual, it provides you with more stability for self and in your job, compared to a casual where you know.. they'll call you when they need and can get rid of you the same way. But it's a sweet deal you get to keep the casual gig for the other days you have free! Just make sure you consider your health (and back!) if you feel like you're not getting a break.. MAKE SURE YOU TAKE THOSE BREAKS 😛

I'm signing off now, but @Jynx is around and I'll see if they can suss an email for you if you still want that, alright?

It was awesome chatting with you - I hope you have a chill evening.
You got this! 🙂