I need your 🧠

Hello smart SANE people,

I am going thru a messy legal situation. Doing everything I can to avoid homelessness & starting recovery process of being in DV relationship with ex. for 20 years.

I am 46 now. It is like learning life all over again. It is scary. Many times I crave the abuse, as it is what I knew.

This is difficult mentally to process. To feel safer when I was abused - than now, I am 'free' & scared.

I feel like being alone, gives me panic feelings & I also feel liberated.

That is quick backstory, intro, connection🙂

*What I need now - is to find evidence of my address (s) for the last 2 decades, aka 20 years 😉

Or- any evidence eg. Photos, diary (I don't have?)

Real estate is not an option.

My 2 options I can think of are to contact VicRoads & ask for print out of my address for last 20 years. I am worried, all the red tape etc etc

I also thought I could try C'link records. However, the MyGov portal only goes back 2 years I think.

I thought about electoral role, however, I'm not sure how accurate this would be because, maybe I updated my address at election time? Therefore, could be 3 year disparity.

I even thought, maybe the chemist would have file on me? This will be inaccurate too, if they can help.

Any evidence at ALL is helpful.

I would very much like to submit one piece of evidence by today.

I can take my time over next few weeks looking.

I was wondering, if any one out there has any other suggestions, or knows tricks to access 20 year old info??,

I would appreciate your support so much.

There is no wrong suggestions❤️ - it could trigger memory of other evidence for me.

I will tag ppl I can think of. All people welcome to reply if you can help me to think!

And, if you cannot help, that is ok, I wish you a lovely weekend & good vibes xxooxx

StanD

@tyme @hanami @Appleblossom @Bunniekins @Shaz51 @TAB (rmy🌈) @Former-Member @Kyle1 @Judi9877 @Former-Member @MDT @Meowmy

PLS help me to tag other members. (If you want) I can't remember - I know I'm missing heaps

If you are overwhelmed yourself, & looking for support, please do not reply. I wish you strength & love & I Ask God to give those who are struggling most rn, to please help them with your love & light & warmth. So be it.