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Far and Away

Far and Away

Hi @Former-Member .... 😊

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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, how's your adventure going? Is there a particular thread your putting updates? Jetlag takes about a week to settle I'm told, and I'm sure there's son Celtic wisdom to get over your post viral fatigue How's WH coping with his obcessive routines while travelling? A challenge I would think 😕 Hope this is a time yo rekindle some first love maybe.
Any good churches to visit there? Did you go this morning? Love ancient architecture and history. Churches are great for it. Hugz xox

Hadn't thought to start a new thread ....

In transit again today and have to go again now .... found a brief moment with wifi .... will catch you later and answer the above.

Hi to everyone else .... 👋🏽💗💕

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Oh it's not looking good for them @Zoe7. Might be a very early night.

Introducing my little mate Tank 😊❤

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awww - he's adorable @CheerBear They are so cute when they are sleeping after they have been a ball of energy lol

Toby has taken himself into the kitchen where Cat is laying down near the door - she is waiting for her biscuits but being a good girl tonight and not talking to me too much, It is still a nice temperature so she is quite comfotable laying with a slight breeze on her.

@Faith-and-Hope I'll give your neice and nephew a hug from you also

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@Faith-and-Hope @CheerBear Been messaging with friend again - we are planning to meet up later in the week - don't know when yet as he is quite busy with painting the house and I need to get the garage done but happy to drop doing that to meet. Now it is getting very real In the back of my mind is that it won't happen but he wanted to video chat tonight and I said I would rather meet - would actually make me feel more comfortable - so we will see what happens (that is possibly my own insecurities coming to the fore but I would rather feel like that than be too disappointed - trying to be positive though).

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This is very exciting @Zoe7! It sounds like he enjoys chatting with you as much as you're enjoying chatting with him, and that he's as keen as you are!

So good again to hear you're doing what feels most comfortable for you but still stretching yourself to move into that scary yet exciting and potentially great place.

Quiet (but inside huge) yay for you 😊❤👍

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Introducing my little mate Tank --- awwwwww @CheerBear, is this your new furbaby xoxo

Hello @Faith-and-Hope, @Zoe7, @Bimby2, @Former-Member

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He did say he has found himself thinking of me and yet we still don't know what each other's voices even sound like @CheerBear I have heard him sing on his fb posts but not him actually talking. He is a very good singer though and his original music is really quite good. He certainly can play an acoustic guitar with some skill

I have all these 'not good enough' feelings but I never know - he might have similar feelings - only time will tell. ...and as I have said before - it might be that we don't actually get on that well when we meet and that is oksy - but I am secretly (or not so secretly) hoping we do get on and he isn't too disappointed when he meets me.

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Oh I wish @Shaz51, but I'm not really a dog person (getting there though!) and I think my cats might have something to say if one became part of the family. This is my 'nephew' who is being puppysat for a while and we've come to play with him 😊

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Hi @Shaz51 How has your day been my sister?

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As scary as it might be, I think it's going to be heaps easier in a couple of ways once you have met in person @Zoe7. I have everything crossed the 'click' will continue when you spend in-person time with him. So brave and awesome to see you going for it and giving it a go!

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haha I like that you have everything crossed that we 'click' @CheerBear and I bet @Faith-and-Hope is doing the same right now and so wishing she could comment too

Who would have thought that me of all people would be even considering this - it really does show me how far I have come - I think CB that your experience (despite it being tricky at times) has helped here also. I am super scared, nervous, excited all in one and maybe that is a good thing. Trying not to go into it with any expectations but also going to be very honest in where I am sitting without revealing too much - I am really a very private person and he has already sensed that I am quite vulnerable from our conversations and yet he still wants to pursue whatever this is - so that says a lot to me.

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