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Far and Away

Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor20 Nov 2016, 8:10 pm AEDT

Far and Away

Hi @Former-Member .... 😊

You wrote:

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, how's your adventure going? Is there a particular thread your putting updates? Jetlag takes about a week to settle I'm told, and I'm sure there's son Celtic wisdom to get over your post viral fatigue How's WH coping with his obcessive routines while travelling? A challenge I would think 😕 Hope this is a time yo rekindle some first love maybe.
Any good churches to visit there? Did you go this morning? Love ancient architecture and history. Churches are great for it. Hugz xox

Hadn't thought to start a new thread ....

In transit again today and have to go again now .... found a brief moment with wifi .... will catch you later and answer the above.

Hi to everyone else .... 👋🏽💗💕

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 5:16 am AEDT

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@Former-Member ....

Btw .... the most confusing part of this mornings conversation was this .... we had the exact same conversation a couple of months ago now .... AND HE DIDNT REMEMBER THAT .... ??!!

Not only that .... but last time he warned me off the no-fly zone in no uncertain terms .... so here I was expecting him to do the same today .... and instead he led me straight into it then reeled like he didn't even see it coming .... ??!! It's moments like this where he seems somewhat delusional .... it's surreal ... but we haven't had one for a while, unless you count the fact that he thinks the c / s behaviour is hidden from us when it's not .... ??

Too hard to even think about most of the time .... just keep walkin' along with him ... waiting for the tide to turn ....

Went walking with S2 tonight. That was nice. He has been grumpy about uni stuff in the last few days - baby dragon - and tired and WH micro-managed-over-it ... but tonight he was civilised. Yay. D3 full-on baby dragon mode with a cold now that her knee is nearly recovered .... :face_with_rolling_eyes:

🤗 Hugs

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 6:38 am AEDT

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Unknown userMember29 Nov 2016, 7:33 am AEDT

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Gosh @Faith-and-Hope, really sorry 'pillow talk' seems lost for you. It must be hard not feeling apart emotionally. Lonely in a crowd so to speak. Have you considered Couple Counselling? or a couples retreat? To try reconnect. I know you love each other deep down.
My his bb was a self diagnosed Asbergers, which I think says it all. He was very close to his mother too (stiff competition). You do sound ready to walk out, I don't know what the answer is. O find myself thinking ng of Biblical Women, what would they do? Sarah comes to mind. Leaving wasn't an option for them. There should be a support group or so, or not. You're doing the right thing for now.maybe make the most connecting on shallow things and Keep praying. Sorry, but a bit out of my depth on this one - maybe you can write a book titled "married to Ed" to help others. Go gently on you today xox

Its 6.30am, quiet glorious morning, so fresh after last nights storm. Wish I had someone to share it with here on my veranda, hang on, I have you 🙂

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Unknown userMember29 Nov 2016, 7:39 am AEDT

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BlueBaySenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 7:40 am AEDT

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Hugs love and strength to you my beautiful friend @Faith-and-Hope

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 7:56 am AEDT

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Hi @Former-Member .... 🌷

It's enough that you care ...

I have no intention of walking out ... but counselling is not an option at this stage either ... it would expose the e.d. and WH is having none of that ....

Yes, connecting on shallow things, and the value system when it's tgere for him, which it still is re the kids n stuff .... generally ....

Counselling not available in our state without a diagnosis .... grr .... and he's having none of that ....

He sulked off to bed with his choc-fruit treats tonight with barely a G'night in my direction .... but this might wear off across the next couple of weeks .... dunno ...

Like I said, I think he thought he had it all figured out, either believed the e.d. was truly hidden and therefore not a problem, or that I would just continue playing along with his alternate reality .... and therefore not a problem ....

I will have to just let him process this and see where it leads us now.

Thanks @BlueBay ... I really appreciate the message of support. I can't really do anything other than hold to integrity and keep swimming ....

🐠🐠🐠

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 9:30 am AEDT

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❤️ @Kurra

Headed for bed .... 10:30pm over here ....

g'night. 💤

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KurraSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 11:29 am AEDT

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😙 @Faith-and-Hope. Loved the sketch enough to save it. Sleep well 💚

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 4:28 pm AEDT

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@Kurra ... 😊

Hoping it's a good distraction for you .... it's my sketch from the other day that I am progressively adding colour into. I have bought acrylics here in Europe, in small tubes, but their consistency and texture is very different from what I am used to, so I am having to layer them like watercolour .... and I am not a water-colourist .... so this will be interesting .... harder to mix the colours I want too.

Watch this space ....

Hope you got a little sleep yourself ....

💜💐

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Nov 2016, 6:44 pm AEDT

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Hi everyone ....

7:45am and 1deg here ....

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