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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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Morning @CheerBear , @Faith-and-Hope , @Zoe7 and all passing through.

I had a really good sleep in the end too. I had taken sleeping meds that I didn’t think had worked but once they hit I crashed.

So so good to read about those things you are doing that are giving you that challenge and sense of purpose. I did have a chuckle that your psych added more in.

I haven’t worked out what I’ll do yet today having just woken up. I have no milk left for coffee 😱 so I’m guessing that is the first thing to do.

I hope everyones day is ok.

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Really pleased that you had a good sleep @Teej Much like you I don't have any more plans for today but housework and footy watching. Already been to the market with my sister and will go back next Saturday to get a couple of things - one for my sister and another thing for me if I can afford it. It is my sister's birthday next week so at least I have an idea of something to get for her - it is only small so I will need to think of something else to get her during the week. I know she doesn't expect much as she knows I can't afford it - but it is the thought that counts

Hope you find things to fill your day and that whatever you do gives you some joy @Teej

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Happy Mother’s day to anyone passing through. I know like any celebratory days it’s a hard day for some. I also know many , many mums who deserve to be celebrated today (and everyday really)

I feel a bit awkward doing this but.....just also want to acknowledge @CheerBear, @Faith-and-Hope as I’ve followed their motherhood journeys for a while. I hope you are both celebrated today for all the mum things you do. Happy Mother’s Day! 💜🤗

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Thanks @Teej ..... and you ❣️

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@CheerBear 💜🌷💕

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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope 💜🤗💐

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Curious to hear how the bear of ??? cheer is going @CheerBear .

my just checking in post. It’s a whingy whiny one :face_with_rolling_eyes:. I wish I could write about lots of it but I’m paranoid about a few things. I have hit the reality stage of property settlement and my brain has decided that mashed over ripe banana brain shall prevail. I’m so scared but holding my own. I am so grateful to have my brother by my side. Not that long ago I would have sh with the events of today. Today I’m trying so hard to keep my big girl pants on and work through this. The elastic hasn’t worn out yet.

I have a couple of full on days and then hopefully a chance to unwind and do some less stressful things. My therapist goes away this week and I’ll miss two appointments with her but I know I can contact if needed. It’s always nice to know that I can.

Gif of me swinging and hoping I’ll catch the branch

Or maybe not a gif 😜🤨

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Are you ok @CheerBear ?

Just a check in for you. I know you are really busy with lots as well. Thinking of you and hoping everything is ok.

@Faith-and-Hope , @Zoe7 I just saw the other day that lj has left the forum. Hoping she is ok too. I’ve often checked to see if she is around for all these months.

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Hi @Teej

Yes, I had noticed that LJ had left the forums a couple of weeks back, but it was not a good time to let a few others know ..... so I have been quietly grieving her absence, hoping that she will feel able to return at some point, or be recovered enough perhaps in her life circumstances to feel that she is moving forward positively.

Knowing that she was still here was a comfort to me personally, even though she wasn’t feeling able to participate actively.

😔💜💐

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I'm not feeling so great about being here at the moment @Teej so I'm not here until I work out/through some tricky feelings. I've been wondering whether to say anything, thinking you might wonder if I was OK if I wasn't here. Your post was, as usual, so well timed for me. Those senses of yours ❤

Life beyond here is going well though 🙂 I do have lots going on, like always probably, but for the first time in ages it feels like some really exciting great stuff. I'm loving what I'm doing though it's a challenge sometimes. I worked out I legitimately spend around three times as long building myself up to do things, working out how to do them, figuring out the practical aspects of it all, preparing myself etc. than I do actually doing the things. It makes it extra tiring and it's a juggle but I'm getting there and it feels so nice to be truly believing that there is life stuff beyond all the bad that has happened, to be looking forward to again (even if it takes me a bazillion years and a bananas amount of effort to get to and is nothing like what I expected it would look like or had planned for 😉).

I hope you're going OK/OK enough/better than OK today. I am getting email tags but not if they have images so I've only just seen your post above. It sounds like you're doing a super job at working through your huge-ness. I hope you're able to recognise and appreciate how awesome it is to be getting through something so big, without the elastic snapping completely 😁 Genuinely big go you for that.

Thinking of you often. Thank you for caring 😘❤
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