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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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Haha - encourage miny @Teej That amused me as well ...must be our humour hey - my dad would love that one too

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Haha @Teej very funny


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How is that assignment going Hon - any progress today @Sans911 ?

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My mum's here now, so can't do anymore. I did about half a paragraph of the heading that I was talking about earlier. My assignment is about transference & counter transference.

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See above @Zoe7

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That is a tough topic @Sans911 Not surprised you are having a little difficulty with it. It is good that you have made a start though - maybe get some more done later when your mum leaves. Keep us updated hey

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hugs @Sans911

keep us updated xoxo

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@Sans911 @I had a quick look online at a Psychology Today article about that. Very big topic by the looks, but quite fascinating too.

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It's also been very triggering as a lot of the research around the subject has been around bpd and transference/countertransference. I've trawled through some journal articles that talk about master manipulators, how challenging and difficult they are to manage and treat. It took me back to the times when I was so desperately in crisis, I did some things and acted in ways I wasn't proud of.

So it hasn't been an easy assignment at all @Zoe7.

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Not easy, but hopefully will help you process done if the past stuff too @Sans911 ..... with some self-compassion in there somewhere. When we are trying to survive difficult circumstances we only know to respond with the resources to hand, and the wounded feelings we are experiencing at the time ..... and we all do that.

Please be gentle with yourself ..... and wishing you a good assignment outcome ......

Sitting here with you 💜

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