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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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TABSenior Contributor
yeah didnt realise I was making things complicated,well plans change, dunno @Former-Member
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TABSenior Contributor
pretty much, well my plans changed, theirs were fixed, yet vague, doesnt matter, well now, was bothered about it yest and today, yes re reading stuff into things @Former-Member
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TABSenior Contributor
well you're right @Former-Member ..I got nuthin ..lol
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TABSenior Contributor
yeah sister texted out of blue, normally avoids me, doesnt talk anymore, so will front up, no big expectations lol yeah hard to please everyone, main person has to be self sometimes spose @Former-Member well its Christmas..
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TABSenior Contributor
will just have to smile and gloss over things,haha do you know them? @Former-Member they are extremely judgemental, but they have gone there way and I have gone mine, well years ago .. yeah am overthinking it now, been in same situation before, guess. let them shout themselves in the foot if anyone does. Will just try to smile and be social(ish) ..they deliberately avoided me last xmas, went early without me knowing. Gawd this is getting a life of its own, best not to think about it. Hope you are doing okay.anyway will try and look presentable, act normal etc, am already judged anyway so nothing to be gained ..or lost ..well coulda got new clothes, wish the dodgy touchup job hadnt come off car, took the gloss off it a bit oh well they cant be impressed anyway
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