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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@CheerBear, the first time I had to make a decision on something like this was when I was quite young and the decision was very clear. The second time was more difficult because I was at the other end of my fertility cycle and the decision was much more final for my lifetime. I had decided to go one way for some time in this instance, then changed my mind at the last minute. As I've said before, I have few or no regrets about either event, but I do sometimes think in a passing way about what might have been if my life had taken a different direction.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
It's a serious subject but really no issue for me to talk about it, especially with you, @CheerBear. Glad to be able to share with you. 
Now I think I will return to bed for my next sleep. Wishing you calmer feelings this day.
Hi to everyone in this thread too, have been reading and 'supporting' but not replying much on the forum just now. Hoping today is a good one for all.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
❤️❤️ @CheerBear @Mazarita ....
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TeejSenior Contributor
Just doing a check in @CheerBear if you are up for one. No probs if not?
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
My day was not exciting I can tell you @CheerBear. You didn’t mention wanting to be bored to death 😘.
i went to the market and got food for mum which I then delivered to her, spent nearly 4 hours at her house, then went to supermarket for a few things and have collapsed on my iPad now. Trying to get the motivation up to do the jobs I wanted to do today 😳:face_with_rolling_eyes:
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TeejSenior Contributor
Oops @CheerBear how was your day?
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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