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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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💜💜💐💕 @Teej @CheerBear ..... 👋

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👋 @Faith-and-Hope 😊❤💛

@Teej I have some garden pretties for you this morning to wish you the best for your time away. I'll add them below because, unlike you, I haven't worked out how to preload pics into 18 albums 😆😘

Thinking of you this morning

Hope the day ahead has good in it for anyone reading

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Here's the beautiful azalea (taken in the rain, in my big boots, under a big hood) this morning. It was tricky to get a picture of how big and lovely it really is without too much background I don't want to share publicly.

Close up they remind me of something from Fantasia. Tutus and dancing ballerina flowers 🌸🌼

There is also a darker one in front which might hopefully grow as big and beautiful one day 💕

While I was scrolling through my photos today I put this together for you too. Some more of (mostly my) garden cheer. The daisies are from the lovely garden house.

Hope the (overload of) flowers bring a tiny bit of brightness to your morning @Teej. They gave me some 🙂

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Well I smiled lots when I saw your post @CheerBear.

Im supposed to be packing to leave in just over an hour 😳 but I’m chronically sidetracked from those gorgeous images (and the dig at 18 albums, I chuckled at that 😄).

As you can tell im not much into pale colours but that pale pink azalea is to die for (just realised another interesting saying, well writing it here felt a bit weird). The close up really shows how spectacular it is. It must be an amazing bush. I love the other pink one too. Love the garden collage too. It’s always lovely to see what is growing, we'll have to put up veggie ones too 😊.

I had to smile at me finding a nice smelling one too. I think my chances are pretty limited. I think there is only one male going. I am only there until Friday. This respite is different to others as you have to be well to go. It’s more of a preventative one and motivation to keep going. It’s like a short holiday really.

Thinking of you with all your twisty, not knowing and very unpredictable at the moment. I’m not sure if I’ll be on the forum much while I am away but I will keep a bit of an eye out for how things are going.

Hugs 💜🤗

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@Faith-and-Hope I hope your day isn’t too crazy. From reading it sounds like things are pretty full on. Thinking of you too 💜🤗

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Full on with studies as the moment @Teej, but mr. flies out again later today, so that slows our home pace down to a more relaxed speed for a couple of days.

Soooo pleased you are going on this respite / retreat ..... 🤗💜🌷

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Would love to paint from your images @CheerBear .... 🎨 🌈 💐

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@CheerBear I’m hoping the timing of this is ok and that you are going ok 🤞🏻🙏.

Todays forecast

chances of finding a nice smelling one in respite is zero as i been unable to locate any males regardless of scent 😁. Chances of having a lovely, interesting, supportive group of females (my age group as well) in my respite house is high 😊.

We went to an exhibition and art gallery yesterday which was lovely. Thought of you @Faith-and-Hope. One of the artist featured had the most amazing art. My group supervisor said the effect was created using plastic wrap which dries on the paint. There were some awesome pieces.

Some floral cheer (from of one of my 18 OTT albums 😜) for all passing by.

💜🤗

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🤗💜💐💕🌷 @Teej ....

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Morning @Teej and anyone who might be reading 👋🙂

I had some feel goods reading your update yesterday Teej 😊 So great to hear you're with some lovely people, even if they're not the smell-good-in-that-way kind of people 😉

Love the idea that your respite stay again involves arty stuff. Do you have opportunities to do anything arty or creative yourself while you're there? (Is there space for a tired CheerBear to magically teleport there and join you?)

I wanted to reply, first to say that I hope the rest of your stay is helpful and full of support with and from lovely people, and also to check in myself. I'm not here at the moment as much as I wish I had time to be and I am missing here lots. Not being here is one of lots of (temporary but tricky) changes that have happened in the last weeks. Very little feels normal at all and I'm finding it a bit hard sometimes. I am realising how much better things feel when there is predictability, order, structure, routine... etc to my days. I'd be very happy if life was totally, completely in my control really 😉😆

As for the unwell one in our life, it looks like they will be heading for heart surgery soon-ish. I'm going in this morning to see if I can speak with someone at the hospital and ask questions well one has but is struggling to ask. There is a big team of specialists involved including heart people, tummy people, bone people and cancer people, and it can be very jumbly and confusing for my people sometimes. I'm hoping to be able to find some answers today and a way to de-jumble things a bit 🤞

Hope the forecast today is for a calm one with plenty of good in it for you (and us all). Missing you and everyone, but often thinking of you 💗💕
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