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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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@eth. A very hard day for you - being your sons birthday.
I hope you have support around you.
Am sending you my best.

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I'm sorry I didn't know that @eth. I'm glad you've reached out. Do you want to talk about him? Or would you prefer to be distracted. I'm here for you 💜🤗💐

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I did go to the doctor @utopia @Kurra .. wasn't usual one that barely have seen anyway. Got so caught up in stuff forgot to ask re counselling, well it wasnt quite a total 'bust' ..but think may have to take self for a drive to perth soon to see old doctor, not getting anywhere with these ones ..I supplied paperwork ie results from stuff, offered phone numbers, he just looked at me said to get details I supplied copied to put on file on my way out. anyway was back related stuff i was trying to put him in the picture with as it has flared up again, anyway feeling like a crock not helping me in general etc.

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Thank you for the thoughtful response and feedback @Faith-and-Hope I wouldn't want to be any other way either 💕 Self preserveration is important where it doesn't cross the boundaries of hurting others. Are you still travelling? How is it going?

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Hi @eth .....

Sending gentle hugs your way .... and here (on and off) if you want to talk about it ....

💜💐🤗

Hi @TAB .... chase it down .... do what you need to do to see to yourself .... all your "mums" are here waiting to hear ....

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@TAB. What a bloody bugger. I hate half a**ed gp's. Feel like yelling at them to do their bloody job. That means looking after the 'whole' person and making time for them.
Sorry. I shouldn't be so peed off about your visit. Lol. Think I need a sleep.
I'm glad you went to the doctors though. Did he give you anything for the pain?

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Thanks @utopia and @Former-Member. I am alone for the next 2 nights. @Former-Member I had a traumatic delivery of him at 22weeks. My other child survived when delivered at 26 weeks. I called my son Huon and had to leave him at the hospital. One more week and I would have had to register his birth and death.

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Sending a warm hug @eth 🌹

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@Kurra how did the surgery go last Monday? Did everything get sorted at work to your satisfaction?

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@eth. Huon is a beautiful name. I love it. Like the mighty Huon Pine. A strong name.
So hard when a child is not recognised by the authorities. He was your baby. He lived. He just didn't get to survive outside the womb. I'm so sorry for that.
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