not feeling good

@BlueBay

How about some Bailey's ice-cream then - same taste - no alcohol. We could just let it melt and drink it like little school kids and giggle like we were being all grown up

@Zoe7 you're so funny 🙂 LOL

Do they make Bailey's ice cream?

Yep @BlueBay Actually got some in the freezer that I bought for Christmas just for my Mum - but we had so many other things that we never got to it! - It's all yours now

Thanks @BlueBay

I'll bring my pewter goblets so I can share it around .. like I have done sometimes .. bushwalking ..

lol .. Please dont stop being YOU @Zoe7

Bye for now

Hey @Zoe7

I'm logging off for a little while, I will check on you later on tonight.

And thanks for cheering me up this afternoon 🙂

you're such a beautiful caring person xxxooo

Chat later @utopia @Appleblossom xxx

Thanks @BlueBay. Talk later

Hii @BlueBay@Zoe7@Appleblossom@utopia

I'm bringing another bottle of Baileys and some extra glasses and milk and ice - and yeah - let's spend the whole auction under the stairs trying not to giggle

Yes Blue - we are a bunch of school girls getting into mischief and why not? We are taught to behave properly to a ridiculous degree - let's have fun -

I can hardly wait for the party - anyone want Timtams - chips - black forest cake - chocolate covered caramels?

I hope there's enough room under thoses stairs

Dec

And yes @BlueBay

This lady sounds wonderful - of course you can cry - after all the other psychologist did you a disservice walking out when it is my bet that if we can cry for a bit that will pass and we can get on the the business at hand which is working out why we need to cry

And yes - crying for a bit could be 10 minutes or two sessions - a couple of sessions back my therapist saw I was upset - asked me if I was okay - handed me the tissuess and I wiped away the single tear and then studiously cleaned my glasses - finding I didn't need to cry -

So we cry - we are female and allowed - little boys are taught not too - but that's not right

I can talk through all my blubbering anyway - why not weep and cry and gnash out teeth

And @utopia

Yes - my home is my castle - my turf - my rules - my castle

One of the people who helped me clean on Friday told me my home is really clean - which was nice to hear - I told her I have cleaning 3 hours a week - but no - she said my home is really clean - there are things I do that are habitual - that was so good to hear

Was it you who was talking about Women who Run with the Wolves because I found my copy and it is so interesting - we could start a thread about this because women are trained from childhood to be something they are not - and this shows in the unhappiness of so many women who write here

It's hard to break the training of a life-time but one thing is we can write that it is normal to feel bad about breaking from our training - or accepting it

Dec

@BlueBay Thought you might like to wake up to this today - in anticipation of the huge party that seems to be developing under your stairs for auction day next Saturday!!!!