not feeling good

Hi @BlueBayand @Change123

I was on-line last night Blue but I gathered that you were in a bad place but not able to talk about it - and I am glad you are going to the cinema today - and enjoy your movie - what a great idea

One thing you know about your situation is that your mood shifts a lot - so if you find yourself in panic mode you know it will pass - and also - darn it - you will swing back the other way -

It's all part of the healing process

And Change - I am glad you went to work - and my ex-husband's family motto was nils bastando carborundum - which is probably wrong but it means - "never let the b^st^rds grind you under

You don't need your boss treating you that way - and it's is legally unfair - all the best today

Dec

Hi @Decadian

I am stressing to the max about our finances yet again. I can't sleep, all i am doing is thinking about the money we don't have in our account.

Last night I was overwhelmed again and wasnt coping. i couldnt say last night because i was ashamed and embarassed to say again our problem.

I am crying, i am not coping, i just wish i could run away from all my problems.

i wish there was an easy way to live, an easier life.

And you know what's getting me upset as well 0- it's my dad's birthday 80th birthday in a few weeks.

And the movie i saw was called Lion and I sobbed and sobbed at the end. It was about a boy who lived in India, got lost, was adopted to an australian couple but after 25 yrs he wanted to see his mum again. And he did. It

just realised our bank accounts have been hacked into. a lot of our money has gone. now i am ctrying so much i can't think straight.

Hi @BlueBay

This is tough Blue but the first thing you have to do is to stop crying and get onto your bank and let them know what has happened and all the details - they have high security and they are bound to look into this for you - so collect all the details and ring them - NOW

Then - yes - I know the story of LION - it's a true story - I read about it some time back - it has really triggered you - hey

I read a good sign in your post though - once you just used to say that you wanted to run away - now you are saying you want to run away from your problems - as strange as that might sound it means you are honing in on what it is you are running from - it's not so vague anymore

Everyone has problems Blue - and there will always be dates - you can't change your parents and it hurts - I know - and there will always be financial stress -

Death and taxes - unvoidable

As I said just before - you will have these bad days - and you will swing back -

I am having a crappy time lately - yesterday I had two bouts of heat stress - the first one was at home and I treated myself but went to the doctor and had another bout - but my numbers are okay - and today I am just exhausted from all of that - at least I know there is nothing wrong

But don't be ashamed of your problems - and you can talk about them - people understand

But get onto the bank right away - don't let the hackers get away with your cash - and for that matter - any more - that is the first thing you do

I get it though - I do understand

Dec

Hi @Decadian

I did ring the bank to query someothing and that's how i found out about hacking. Hubby is almost home so he and i will go to the bank together in about 15 mins. the bank are aware and said we will get our money back.

Gosh i hate these hackers so much

i will let you know later on.

Hi @BlueBay

I am so glad you and your husband are going to the bank together - this will be easier for both of you

It's rotten that all of this is happening - as if you don't have enough problems

Hackers!!! - They are reallty low people and some of them have no other reason for hacking than they know how -

I will be clad to hear how you get on

Dec

Hi @Decadian

Went to the bank and the lady that works there is a mother of my son's friend, so we have known her for a number of years. She also knew that in Dec i was in hospital. She must have known that i was crying and kept saying to me don't worry you will get your money back, i don't want you to stress. i told her it's too late i had already stressed.

the bank have closed all 3 accounts and closed our credit card as well. The damn hacker got into all our accounts, transferred money from one account to another and then even took cash out with our cfredit card number. Unbelievable how this happens. They first transferred 4 cents, then $700. I think the whole total is proably a few thousand dollars. I am so angry, because now we have to wait for new cards and change our bank details with all our utilities.

The bank will sort out the internet banking fraud and also the paypal.

I am really sorry Dec that i don't ask about you and when i read that you had a bad day i felt really terrible. I hope your day has got better. hugs to you my friend

@Change123i always thought that i would never ever go to the cinema on my own - but do you know what? - i enjoyed it. i am going to do this once a month on my own. I was going to not go and say to hubby if he wanted to go tonight, but i am so glad i didn't ask him and i went on my own.

Hi @utopia how are you going tonight? sending you love and hugs

Hi @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51