not feeling good

@BlueBay glad you enjoy work, I hope you're back feels better soon xx

hello @BlueBay , @Angels333 , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Maggie

my siter @BlueBay , flowers for your mum , way to go my darling

yes it is very hard finding the right balance for all that is going on

happy birthday Mr @BlueBay

@Shaz51 @Angels333 @Former-Member @Owlunar @Maggie @Molliex and others following

Happy Mother's Day ❤️💐😘❤️

I'm angry

all I want is for me to do NOTHING on Mother's Day

no. I've cooked sauce for lasagna. I've done load of washing and hung it out

I've now got to go to shops to buy a few things

Hubby laying down as he has pain where he's hernia is. But he won't go back to the doctor. Oh well.

I'm just upset because I want them all to put some effort into treating me nice. I never get spoilt.
oh my daughter did help a little. She's trying to get A dressed.

no point complaining 😢😢😢

better stop writing or I'll start crying

@BlueBay 🌺🤗💓

Sherry

@BlueBay 💙💙💙🌹🌸💐🌺🥀

I'm in a bad way

hiding in the toilet crying

angry at hubby

today is supposed to be a nice day for me but all I've done is f...ng housework washing cooking

I hate today

Hi @BlueBay

I can hear you are having a bad day - it's sad - I know - and the only way to get other people to treat you better is to tell them what you want - otherwise it's you doing the cooking, washing, housework - on and on -

Btw - has anyone made you do the work? I am here by myself and if I take time out from chores they don't get done - it's true - but it will all be there when I feel better so I can tell you that leaving things undone is perfectly okay -

About Huffnpuff and his hernia pain - oh sheesh - I really get that one - my ex-h used to have a headache or a cold and he would sit in a chair and moan gently whenever I walked past the loungeroom door - I would get fed up and tell him I didn't want to hear another word until he took a headache tablet - preferably two - in the mean time - he could shut up.

So - my suggestion - tell him you don't want to hear another word until he sees the doctor - and refuse to take any more notice of his posture - lying down or however he walks about

It sounds like a bloody horrible day for you when you would have liked better - me too actually - I have been feeling under-the-weather - I just let it be - it will not last for ever and always wears off

It's time for you to go on strike BlueBay

Dec

It's time for me to disappear forever snd ever

I feel like a burden

a slave that does everything

Am I in la la land thst thinks everyone at home will treat me to a special day like today????

is it wishful thinking??

or does this happen to others. They are treated special

you kniw it would be so nice if the kids organised lunch and just spoilt me a bit. After everything I do for them. And even hubby could have organised something. Well next year I sm not doing anything. Actually every Sunday I'm going to stop cooking. If everyone can just sit around and wait for dinner well I can sit around too.

I work, I contribute. Ok not enough but I try to wirk and earn money. Oh I'm sorry m rambling on.

i am laying on the couch like everyone else is and I'm not cooking dinner. No way.

No - you are not rambling @BlueBay - I am really happy to read this post actually - you have made a good decision - next Sunday you go on strike and wait to see if anyone notices

In the meantime make yourself some snacks and hide them so you will have something to eat if no one else does anything

Yes - you deserve it - and I can tell you that I got the special treatment on special days because - okay - I was younger then - much much younger - I would get really angry with my then-h and let him know EXACTLY what the problem was - and I guess my daughter knows better than to not notice special days because of what happened when her father forgot

Aw - just remembering is giving me some satisfaction - it's really worth it to let them know BlueBay - and if anyone says they didn't have time - they had a YEAR since your last birthday, anniversary, Mothers Day, Christmas Day - no excuse.

Good on you - don't get dinner tonight - start right away and don't forget - I will be so proud of you for sticking up for yourself

And in Ancient Rome when people had slaves the slaves worked hard and were quite possibly unappreciated but they were essential to the running of life back then - because they did all the work - they were important

So are you - and not just because you do all the work either - but just because you deserve it like everyone else

Dec

Hi @Owlunar

so I didn't cook Sunday night!!

I'm going to make Sunday is my day off from cooking.

I'm waiting to hsvr my MRI of the brain. I'm so anxious.
I'm worried.

hi @Maggie @Former-Member @Shaz51 @Angels333 @Molliex @MDT