not feeling good

Hi @BlueBay .. I am here to sit with you for a bit. We can sort out what best to do. I have to agree with @Owlunar though, that it is not a good idea to drive in this state of distress. Are you at home in the car, or heading home? Wondering if it may be an idea to call your hubby to come and drive you home. Agree also with Dec that it would be a wise move to call your CAT team. Its still a few days before Mondays hospital admission.

I didn't drive @Owlunar

I just left my dietitian and after talking about wirk hospital sbd my eating disorder - I lost it in the car. I sat there fir a good few minutes before driving off.
I did consider calling the CAT team but I managed to be ok. I'm hime niw. I'm safe fir now.
One thing my dietitian said to me is that I'm still walking which is good and also haven't weighed myself for a month. He is concerned that my mental health isn't great but understands that the past circumstances have affected me.
he is worried as the hospital do weigh ins on admission and then weekly. He doesn't want me weighed as he knows the numbers will def affect my mentsl state.
but there is a scale in the foyer of our rooms. I used to weigh myself twice a day when last admitted. Now I'm worried what to do.

@Former-Member @Owlunar Can't remember if I told you that I called the CAT team this morning. I wasn't coping and hime alone. They have kept my name on the list in case I call this weekend. And they are going to check that I'm going to hospital in Monday and admitted.

Okay @BlueBay thats good. 👍

We posted same time I see.

@Former-Member @BlueBay

I think I understand something about how change affects you @BlueBay - my son found it difficult to deal with change and he knew what it was called - Transitional Ambivalence - his unhappiness followed him around like his personal black cloud and I could almost feel it myself when I sat beside him - the memory saddens me to this day

There's really nothing any of us can do to help you with this but we are walking with you - we care about you and we are very hard to drive away

Monday will come but if you feel really bad knee in touch with us and the CAT team - in fact - ring them anyway and we are here for you

It's tough - really tough - I can hear that

Dec

@Owlunar ❤️❤️ Thankyou.
I really feel sad for you when you talk about your son.
I didn't realise that my writing is helping you understand what your son may have been going through.

hugs and love xxoo

difficult to deal with change ohhhhh @Owlunar , mr shaz can not deal with change

sitting with you my sister @BlueBay

@Former-Member

I need some help and advice pls

@Shaz51 @Owlunar @Former-Member @MDT @Former-Member @Gazza75 @Maggie

1. if I get a call for a job interview in the next two weeks while in hospital, what do I say.
Do I tell them I'm away on holidays ??

in hospital??

What do I tell them?

2. also - one job I applied for is 2 days a week tues and wed. But problem is as of 5 feb Wednesday's I'm doing an 8 week course on acceptance and commitment therapy at local hospital. It's 2 hours 10-12.

what do I say if i get an interview. I need to tell them.

Not sure what to do.

Hi @BlueBay

I am afraid I am not that experienced in such matters. However I think that it is fine for you to advise a prospective employer of when you are available to be interviewed and when you are available to start the job, without giving any explanation. What other committments you may have is really your business I think. What do others reckon?

Whitehawk

Thanks @Former-Member

I'm really stressing. I guess I'll wait and see if I get a call.
I hate looking fir wirk. It's the hardest thing to do.
Abd it's hard when you're older.