not feeling good

You have my support too @BlueBay

I know tomorrow will be very difficult. I think your MIL has been more of a mother to you than your own mother has been. Its a big loss for you.

Please try not to think about your mother too much. I agree that its very poor form for her not to be attending your mil funeral. She should really be there, not to farewell your mil, but to support you. Thats not going to happen, so let it go. Its probably a blessing in disguise .. no awkward moments that you have been dreading.

Remember that tomorrow is all about your MIL .. a lovely woman from all the accounts I have read from you. Celebrate the life you shared so closely with her. And remain strong for your immediate family, who are suffering from this loss .. right alongside you.

Thinking of you tomorrow.

Sherry 😞💔

Oh @Former-Member thst is beautiful Whst you wrote. I love having your support too. You mean a lot to me.
yes my MIL was a good person. One who never interfered in our lives.
as for my mum - yeah let's just forget about her for now.

Tomorrow will be hard but I know I've done nothing wrong. My mum is in fault so much.

I thought my mum could be there for support like any normal mum. But obviously not going to happen.

thsnks @Former-Member xxxooo

Supporting you my sister @BlueBay xx

Thsnkyiu sis @Shaz51 xxxoo

Thinking of you today @BlueBay

Thsnkyiu @CheerBear @Maggie

❤️❤️

Take the day quietly @BlueBay

Remember today is the celebration of your MIL'S life and her future without sorrow -

And you will be okay

Thinking of you today especially

Dec 💐🦋🌺🌸

Thankyou so much @Owlunar

I feel sick in my stomach. Been awake since 6am. Dressed and waiting. Another hour and we get picked up. Boys are up. Waiting for my D to arrive anytime soon. Her partner will stay hime with A.
Oh gosh I need to breathe. My head is racing.
I'm going to ignore fir tiday the fact that my parents aren't coming. Part of me is embarrassed that my friends will be there and they will see my patents aren't. I'm ashamed.
I'm going to take my calming med as the CAT team suggested.
cant do snymire now. Food organised.
I better go snd try to calm down a bit.
@Owlunar You have been a caring loving supportive forum mum to. I am forever grateful for your love. ❤️❤️
hugs. Xxxx

Thanks @BlueBay

You are probably nearly ready to have the funeral soon - I think it's on the other side of the city - so unless you read your phone you won't get this until later

There's is no need for you to feel embarrassed or have shame that your parents are not at the funeral - that's their choice not yours - and people will think what they think regardless of what we are concerned about. It's not your problem

Still one wold imagine that they'd be there for your sake - I am surprised that your mother can't get herself there - strange person but I do understand and I am sorry

Take your tablet and relax - I promise it will be okay - funerals have changed a lot in the last few years - not at all dreary but think about you MIL and remember that she was once a young person - full of life - and she has had her innings and wish her the best in the next life

Dec

Watching over you