not feeling good

@Shaz51 @MDT @Meowmy @Gazza75 @Maggie and others following

So much self doubt this mirning. Anger frustration teary. I am all over the place at the moment.

i can't wait for my holiday. Another week. But eith thst I'm really anxious about intimacy. Why am I like this? I've been married over 30 years. It's crazy. I'm so self blaming at the moment.
@Owlunar I hope you're ok. Haven't spoken to you for a few days.

@BlueBay hope you feel better soon. Take care.

Hearing you @BlueBay . 💕💜💕💜☕️☕️☕️

Hearing you here too @BlueBay and understanding and feeling many of those issues myself. I'm sorry everything seems so hard, so complicated, at times. Very much wish that life was easier, for us all.

Sending you love, care and a reassuring hug. Hope your work day is a good one.

Sherry 💓

Hi @BlueBay

I haven't been feeling very well over the last few days - I tend to keep to myself when I feel off colour

Don't worry about intimacy - sex can be great but you have to be in the right state - right now you have so much on your mind it would be the last thing to worry about - and those life-style programmes are staged and there for something to fill up air time - I only see bits and pieces and that's when they are being advertized

When a family member is dying, there are changes in store, kids moving out etc and financial issues and very little going on between you and your husband - then there is your anger and your bad memories - add it all up and where do you fix sex in? Worrying about it makes it worse.

Both partners need to want to have sex - not just one. Imo people put too much stress on the importance of it - if there was less pressure there would be more good sex I am sure.

Have your holiday and enjoy the sun and warmth, the sea air and time to yourself - if you want to take a walk on the beach alone then do just that

I might not have written anything lately but I have been reading

Dec

I thought something wasn't right @Owlunar im sorry you haven't been well.
im going to think of my holiday like this - I'm going with hubby. Will do lots of walks, eat out, swim etc and if intimacy happens well it happens. I'm going to try and not stress about that. I do have enough on my mind.

i think ehen people are stressed that's the last thing on their mind.
still no news on hubby.
take care @Owlunar ❤️❤️

Thankyou everyone for your support @Meowmy @Maggie @Former-Member ❤️❤️❤️

@Owlunar @Former-Member @Maggie @Meowmy @saturnzoon @Shaz51 @Zoe7

@Faith-and-Hope @Gazza75 @MDT abd others
My d missed out on two rentals damn!!!!

i was so hoping they would have got one. They're seeing another one tomorrow morning.
im just over it all.
came hime to find toys everywhere dishes in the sink and shit everywhere.
Omg.
The bathroom they use is disgusting. Shit everywhere.
grrrr 😡😡

Maybe it is time for a family meeting @BlueBay where you set some boundaries. It is about time D and her partner took responsibility for the house too especially if they are home all day. Set specific chores they need to do everyday - even have a roster for what everyone in the household is responsible for - otherwise they can find somewhere else to live. I know she is your D but she is taking advantage of you and as it is affecting you so much you need to put a stop to it.