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New to this. Struggling a bit.

NoybCasual Contributor05 May 2023, 7:41 pm AEST

New to this. Struggling a bit.

New to this but thought I'd have ago. The last 3 weeks have been so hard for myself and my daughter. My partner attempted suicide. And has been in hospital since. She has blamed me for what has happened. We are having a few problems, I wanted 2 days away to clear my head. She then attempted it. It's been a rollercoaster. My daughter is all over place. Doesn't want to have anything to do her anymore. She is starting counselling next wk. I'm a mess. Have decided to end the relationship. Just can't don't it anymore. I'm so sad, confused and lost. She has been diagnosed with boarderline personality disorder. She is nice one day and nasty the next. Very tired.

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Unknown userMember06 May 2023, 7:23 pm AEST

Re: New to this. Struggling a bit.

Hi @Noyb

I feel your wisdom.

I feel your caring nature.

It is hard to talk because not all replies are positive. Some go through different situations.

You show deep thought in your decision.

Sounds like you can save 2. You and your daughter.

One hopes your partner sees the two of you trying to go forward.

I am sure your partner is welcome to join you both.

It is their choice.

Pick up your own pieces. It is not selfish to move forward.

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