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Loneliness

Loneliness

I have come onto this site because I want to deal with my feelings of loneliness and because what I have done to date has not been 100% successful

I think that my wellbeing is being undermined by it and I think that my mental health is quite affected as well

I am sure it is possible to overcome loneliness though at the moment I am not sure how to do it

I do everything I can to avoid loneliness and I am afraid of the feelings of powerlessness it gives rise to

If anyone has suggestions or advice I would be grateful for your replies

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And just know that the path may not be linear and straight forward - but it is there, and definitely worth it. Ive been there. @Julie7

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@Julie7

I have literally met dozens of people since the day I first put down my facades and told the truth...

I was asked: "are you OK?"

And I said no.

Life changed for me, because I opened up.

I've made new friends. And since lost some really fast, too! .. 🤔

But even though I might be able to 'shoot the breeze' or share texts with people now, there is still something/someone missing - it feels like...

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Thank you for your assurance
I think I can trust that I will find my way

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In some way I feel like this is up to me to find the paths that I have to take

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It is up to you which path you take @Julie7 . Hence the community is here to support you.

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Hi @Julie7 , these forums help with loneliness...plus I've found volunteering excellent - you make new friends there.

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Thank you
Yes it is my choice
I don't have to be miserable

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hi @Julie7

Just a Forum tip for you: if you hit the @ button and then select who you want to respond to, they will receive a notice and know that you've 'called back' as it were...

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The @ button after Hint: I take it

Thank you for the tip

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@Julie7 you are a fighter, I can se that from your follow up posts. I live in Sydney but if you are ever in the area we could go for a coffee? 🙂

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