Motion - new pathways - air -sea -land -us

About to hit the hay @tonys I'm up late because I'm home alone & a sense of freedom. I have big day today. I will be tired.

If you say you are happy, who am I to say you are not? I'm sorry if my comment offended you in any way. I don't think it did. Content to the boundaries of your knowledge perimeters.

It takes time to get to know people & see them where they are. I admire your abilities & outlook.

I'm not sure you need to apologise. Although..

I believe I will change the world.

Enjoy your cute squealers.

hello @EternalFlower @tonys @chibam @tyme @StanD

I have written three replies and deleted them

It is hard to express what I want to say to each and all of you

I have read your words and know that you carry much pain and loss

I want to let you know I respect and thank you for sharing this.

This thread is not mine alone it is here for all who want to join and hopefully learn to look for and find new pathways.

I want it to be a space where our minds travel finding new pathways by writing to each other and hearing what each one has to say.

A sharing of thoughts and I hope dreams as we are all allowed to dream.

I for one will never stop dreaming no matter how deep my pain and loss is.

I will not let anyone take that from me.

Our minds and brains are massive and have far far more potential than we give them credit.

Such a small percentage of our brain is used.

Society teaches us to follow instructions, philosophies, listen to those who are paid to advise us.

Some of these people we need to listen to at the same time deciding ourselves what we take away and keep. That is always our choice.

New lessons to be found. Some successes. Some failures. That is life exploring and learning.

Happiness is not what society says it is.

It is finding ourselves and continuing to explore more and more what we see, hear, feel.

Using our senses.

We can still listen to those who have real experience as in life experience and learn far more.

We must listen to ourselves

We must find our imaginations and allow them to flow.

Research is discovering new concepts every day worldwide about how our minds work.

We too can do our own discovering.

We do not have to only follow what we are told.

We must not let this technology process take away our very beings who still think feel hurt cry laugh and so much more.

We are in motion

We will not stay stuck in our minds where we are now.

We can move.

This is my voice.

Can I hear yours?

Sorry.

I was mean

to you

tonys

@tonys

@StanD hey there buddy. I shook my laptop. Looked under the bed, checked behind the all the half full jars of gunk that look like science experiments in my old kitchen, and I just cant find any where you were mean to anyone. specially me

I'm just so glad to find all the posts on your forum. Its something new, different, and special. and I will come and play every chance i get.

I am a bit thick. ran out of air when I was born, . . . make that assembled. . . but hey, all good far as I can see.

Mate , I think you are a cool customer, with some very interesting angles. If you wrote for my local rag I would actually fork out and buy it. And don't ever be afraid to shine a different light on things. I learn from it. . . . I count on It

Now get busy and come up with some more of that challenging thinking. I like It

tonys . . . moon base one. and hi to all the others on this terrific site.

Ok. Well that is good. I thought I had been mean to you. Let's not talk about it anymore. I will try to reply properly later. You are a sweet person @tonys

@StanD all good friend. Enjoy the eve. tonys mb 1

@Former-Member I don't know how to reply to you.

I want to reply because, I want to recognise your effort. If I reach out & get no responses, it can affect me.

I was second guessing attending an intensive experience today. Overwhelmed after busy week.

I enjoy this particular experience. Its confronting & comforting.

I read the last 2 lines of your message.

I felt clear I would go to my thing.

I was given a personal message. Further challenges , & guidance to recognise my STRENGTH to overcome.

Then it said,

Try once more.

I Am tired @Former-Member I Am on my very last breath.

The brightest moments surround me. Gentle music singing to me, as I fall faster down a hole in the earth.

@tonys thankyou, mate 👍

I will dream.

Loud and clear @Former-Member

You are here with people who get you, I feel, I feel like you are also very caring to the people who write. The pain we've lived through at times makes us unfortunately vulnerable and not everyone treads gently or with respect so i value ur kindness and good nature

Hello @tyme

You wrote about the many times that you had been hurt as well as bravely saying that you had also hurt others. This naturally led to learning how to trust all over again..

The difficulty lay in knowing how to share your story with other people.

I see and read of this very struggle with some of the members on a few posts that I have read.

You decided to take on the role of community guide which then led you to this role peer support worker.

You found yourself in sharing and listening with others who had their own betrayals, losses pain and more.

Trust is so very hard to develop and grow strong; stay with us.

oce broken even harder. Broken too many times very hard to build again.

I struggle with trust as I have experienced betrayal and dishonesty far too many times.

I have not lost the wanting to meet new people and learn more about them. I am curious about people.

Especially when they are different and speak their own minds.

Trust and being honest with ourselves are important for all of us who seek to make new friends

@EternalFlower @StanD @tonys @chibam @LeChuck (if you would like to join in .. or observe as a journalist might do on the sidelines. )

Your turns everyone

This is a bit like playing tag

We could do that

I really am a child who is never going to grow up

bye for now

@chibam

You wrote about in your youth real life companionship feeling much more feasible than sitting at a computer

My answer to that would be most definitely.

You had your choices taken away from you and all choices were made for you confining you to a steel jungle with lights and beeps and many malfunctions.

You write well and have knowledge.

Were you allowed to ask your own questions without derision or silencing?

Were you allowed to express your own opinions?

I ask these questions because the answers for all for me are no to each one.

You need not reply of course.

This is only an option for you to choose whether you wish to share your answers or not.

I sense loss as that is my own experience

loss of me.

This is why I feel so strongly about being me in real life ..

I think it is a wonderful thing for you to want to live in real life with people with whom you click

Does this mean that you want them to have the same opinions as you.. think similarly?

Or would you find people who question your or others’ opinions interesting to talk and listen to also as long as they weren’t totally self absorbed of course?

Most of the most interesting people I have talked to during my whole life at work venues or socially have been those who keep in the shadows.

I will talk to them. I am not interested in popularity or favourites.

I am wondering if people might have been near and yet not noticed inevitably out of sigh.

Life is strange when we seek company.

I hope that you know that I am not prying. I am wanting to talk to you from a different perspective and style from the one that I have read so far.

Your turn

bye