Just sad

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@ArraDreaming wrote:
what if that was my kids what if my kids were separated like this it isn’t fair

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I'm hearing all these thoughts and fears @ArraDreaming .

Your baby brother is probably having a wow of a time at the moment. Are you allowed to connect with him?

I'm also a firm believer that once he understands more, he will search you out - be available for him.

I can but I don’t know how anymore I don’t know who to contact to talk to him @tyme

there used to be an easy process to see all the kids and then it changed, I used to seem them every Friday all together this was probably about 6 years ago I don’t think he was born yet or he couldn’t come.
Now I don’t know what i am meant to do to contact them

Hearing you @ArraDreaming .

Do you think Vinnie is grieving at the moment?

Would you consider connecting with him (I'm not sure if you are allowed seeing I do not know the circumstances)?

I've also sent you an email 🙂

I'm sure there's a way to connect with him @ArraDreaming .

It might not be a to-night job, but certainly there are services.

Start slow @ArraDreaming - ask family members. Ask around. This is now your detective work 🙂

my partner works in this kind of area and I’m going to ask her what to do to contact them @tyme but not tonight.
I know there is a case manager I just dont know the name. I don’t have any more family to ask

You're making me think of an old Disney song. It's a mouse movie but the mice are also a metaphor for Jewish refugees and their family separation.

Somewhere Out There (From 'American Tail')

Somewhere out there, beneath the pale moon light
Someone's thinking of me, and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there, someone's saying a prayer
That we'll find one another, in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing, on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping, underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there, if love can see us through
Then we'll be together, somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping, underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there, if love can see us through
Then we'll be together, somewhere out there
Out where dreams come dreams come true

Here's the Linda Ronstadt and James Ingram version (if anyone's in the mood for ballad).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkI-B2JWSZI